I caught a fish! Yep, I did! On my first cast!
By Wendy
@jerzgirl (9327)
United States
August 12, 2008 11:02am CST
What does this have to do with people, you might ask? Well, I'll tell you. The fish I caught was a myLot fish. I placed the bait and danged if I didn't catch one on the first bite.
That's not to say my discussion had no value or was a hoax, because I meant everything I said in it. But, I worded the subject header in a way just to see if anyone would ONLY read the subject and nothing else at all.
Well, I've only had one response and, sure enough, the person didn't have a single clue about the actual topic of the discussion. They only responded to the literal meaning of the subject, which should have been a big clue, because it's not a subject one places under the myLot interest area.
I was disappointed because, not only was it the first (and so far only) responder who didn't read one word of the discussion, but the person has over 1000 participation points! Did they get all of them by not participating? I mean, reading is part of participation, isn't it? Shouldn't you actually read the discussion in order to contribute a meaningful response? And, I can't say the problem is because of a language barrier because what they talked about and what I talked about were two entirely different topics, even though the same word applies to both. They simply read the subject and responded without finding out just what I wanted to know.
So...here are my questions, if you get this far. How should I respond to this person? Should I simply say, "Thank you for responding" and be done with it? Should I point out to them that they need to read the discussions once in a while before they respond? And how should I phrase it if I do? Or should I be more cryptic and just comment, "Say what?" Should I rate them "neg" or not at all? Give me your opinions, please. I'm way curious to know what's best on this one.
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8 responses
@thebeaddoodler (4262)
• Lubbock, Texas
12 Aug 08
I have had this happen even when my subject line was directly related to the discussion!
I don't have any whiz bang one liners to give a response like that. I do something dull like say "I think you misunderstood the discussion". But I like the "SAY WHAT?" response very much. That should get their attention. But it'll probably make them mad.
I wouldn't rate them neg. If anything I just wouldn't rate them at all.
People! Gotta love'em!
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I'm just waiting to see if someone responds to this and starts talking about fishing triumphs..LOL
Yup, I saw the response in the other discussion and it was obvious the person just responded to the title of your discussion and didn't bother reading the whole thing. I've had this happen to me too, as well as many of us here and USUALLY it's newbies that do this so it is surprising when someone who isn't is guilty of this. Whenever this does happen to me though, I do respond with something like "I'm a bit confused with your response here....did you read my entire discussion as your response has nothing to do with the topic." For some really wacky ones I do my famous..."Huh?" answer.
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@jerzgirl (9327)
• United States
13 Aug 08
Oh, that would be great!!! I tried very carefully to avoid directly identifying the other discussion or event in this title because I didn't want that person to know I had written about it, but if it happened again, that would be hilarious!! I already suspect a second person didn't read that other discussion but just answered - I'm not sure, though, because their answer is awkward enough it might be a language barrier and they were very generic so the answer could apply to either definition. But, when I then got that request for a job interview from ME, the person SEEKING the interview, I knew the moons must all be in alignment somewhere!! Is it a full moon today? LOL
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I can appreciate the email you sent me now better...that really is funny that the woman wants to set up an appt. with you about a job...when it was YOU seeking a job...LOL Did you contact her to tell her of her mistake?
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I wouldn't rate them at all and probably say HUH? or WTH? with a mylot code
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I would for sure point out to them that they are way off track on the discussion. I would just let them know that if they had read all of the discussion they would have seen it was not about their own personal neighbors. Maybe let them know that if they don't read all the discussion they might miss out on some very interesting tidbits. I would not rate this time but wait and see if they keep doing the same thing if there is anyway to find out.
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@redkathy (3374)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Hey jerzgirl, good idea! So you found out not all myLotters are here for real discussion or friends! We learn much here. I wouldn't do the neg rating, I think that's to harsh! I like the "say what" and think you should follow up with an in depth answer on what YOU think mylot is all about. People are here for different reasons. Good luck
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@jerzgirl (9327)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Thanks, RK. She actually left a detailed response, but to the literal meaning of the title, not the actual topic. It was kind of surprising that someone took the bait that quickly. And, as I said, it wasn't a hoax - it is a legitimate discussion about how much I appreciate myLot and what brought me here, etc. But, its secondary purpose was to "smoke out" any non-readers just as an experiment. I was really surprised - again, not that they exist, but that they were that quick to hit the discussion.
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@EnricoArbiter (32)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I suppose some people just read the subject name and don't read what your explains.
Thats not helpful in Troubleshooting, if they just read the subject and give auto answers.
You pretty explain extra stuff thats not in the title.
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@jerzgirl (9327)
• United States
13 Aug 08
That's true - you can't give a proper response to a question if you really don't understand what's behind the question, because what it means to you it might not mean to me. That's why it's important to read each and every discussion if you want to respond to it. Thanks!
@jaypeemanuel (1005)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
I almost had the words of fishing in my fingers when I found out the message wasn't really about fishing.
To satisfy your query, I really don't know how I am going to rate things like those. Maybe you can put a big slapping hand in his post or tell him frankly that he didn't read it. After all, he can't kill you just by humiliating him of not intellectually active here.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I don't think I would rate it negative, I just wouldn't rate it. I would, tactfully, point out that their reply didn't pertain to the subject matter, and had they read more than the heading they would realize that. Part of replying to any discussion is in reading the full discussion.