How do you tame your partner?

if my partner's anger is really so bad then i would recommend him to got to anger management class and join it. because this anger wont only affect me but it will also affect his friends circle and his work colleagues who might not put up with him. so if i really care for him i would really suggest him taking anger management class.

From my heart I am telling you that if this man is displaying this much anger and verbal abuse at this point.. You must consider that it will only get worste. Eventually, it very well could turn into physical abuse as well. I hope that you will seriously consider this. Good Luck.

I think these type of personalities developed these temper behaviour from when they were little and it may or may not have been caused by some pain during childhood and I dont think there's much you can do but try to discuss with him why they are like this and once you understand this more you will be more forgiving of him if he became angry. I think you can help him by reminding him gently that he is getting mad on little things and even if he decided to get angrier and even brake up with you, I am sure he will realized that you are honest and care for you.

I still have not figured this one out... My husband really doesn't have a problem with getting mad, i am the one that has the problem with getting mad.. I am the ony that has the problem with getting mad, i get mad over the smallest thing that my husband does..... I say that you should suggest anger mangement... I think that will help alot with his problem...

When I started to read this, I found it very disturbing....reason for saying that is because I strongely believe that you can not change a persons attitude especially when they themselves dont want to change. I mostly find it disturbing because you sound like a lovely person and this sounds like an abusive relationship. Usually when a person gets very very angry constantly...and need very little reason to do so this person will become either physically or verbally abusive and there is nothing you can do about it. This person nn to get help for themself if they really want it...which i would find very hard to believe....atleast not willingly...but anything is possible. If you feel comfortable... i would suggest you speak to this person about theropy... But if not!! Dont!! I would then suggest you leave this person and never look back ....this might be the begining of hell to come... GOOD LUCK!!!

Well i'm just glad i've never engaged in a relationship with a person with an ugly temper. That would really suck. The worst i got was a nagger who keeps complaining about everything like a day won't be complete without an argument. I guess if the girl is just like what you have described, then i guess i would move on without her. There's just no use to stay. That's enough to keep me upset and relationships are supposed to inspire and make me happy. I don't we can do something about his/her anger when he/she just won't listen. I think it's also a total disrespect not only as a boyfriend but also as an individual for her to be yelling at me in front of a lot of people. I deserve someone better.