I used to be indecisive. Now I'm not so sure

Now I have to think hard. LOL. I see what you mean. I tend to make swift decision, unless I need lots of facts, but there are times when all that you can do is mull it over. But I agree with you, it's not a real weakness as ultimately the "dithering" aids sensible decision making.

Are you the sort of clothes shopper that visits every shop and ten, two hours later goes back to the first shop and buy the dress that you saw first? Or is that just women generally? LOL. I think lots of us are like that Munchkin. I am always apologising for things I didn't do.

That's exaclty what i do, i like to be sure i've got the one i really like so i have to check out all of the options first! not sure if that's just me or women in general!! Well it's good to know that i'm not alone on the apologising for nothing front!!! take care xxx

I think that it is called "suffering fools". You can only do it for so long.

It's not just you Guy. I'm just as bad and I only have one child. Admittedly she's noisy enough for four and usually has about a dozen friends in tow! I know that my wife has just said something. Oh yes. She's going to bed. So must I in a minute.

Get yourself on an assertiveness course or at least buy a good self-help guide. I had the same problem when I became a manager for the first time. I had to sack someone that I had not even met! My senior manager made it clear to me that either she went or I did. I got tough. It was horrible but you soon learn that you can say no and that people don't immediately think that you are letting them down. Good luck.

I think that you often get a more positive response if you make your feelings known in a positive and non aggressive way.

Are you implying I would do anything just to annoy? As if.

I must be the same Nanna. I have to say that I get annoyed if someone is deliberately going off at a tangent. But some don't know that they are doing it. Maybe they are thick, so they can be excused. You're not, so it must be to tease and annoy. LOL.

Thank you P1ke that means a lot to me and yes it has Goodnight xxxx

I love you all the same. Get a good night, it's been a hard day. XX

A little pressure is a good thing. But don't let it be constant Momma or you'll go potty like me!! Let that be a warning to you! LOL.

i will make sure to be good

Yeah, one p1ke is enough!*G*

I am often tempted to do that, but Im better than I was. LOL.

Better to move on I think. I cannot remember when I last fell out with somebody. I try hard not to take offence.

LOL. I do try to see the positive in people Dawn. But they make it difficult at times!

yes that is sometimes true... but sometimes I read too much into things and jump to the wrong conclusion!

Now I struggle with the poor customer service thing. A couple of years ago a large group of us went out for lunch. We had pre-warned the restaurant and even chosen our meals from an advance copy of the menu so that the kitchen could get a head start for when we arrived. This was at the restaurant's request. We arrived and the drinks order went well. Then the first meals started to appear. "Don't wait for us" called the as yet non-eaters. So those people with food started to eat. In fact they finished their meals before there was any sign of the others meals. At last two plates appeared. I asked to speak to the manager. "What for?" asked the waitress. "I wish to discuss today's service" I replied. "Not my fault" says she. "Please fetch the Manager" says I. Anyway she was obstructive. So I said that I would go find him myself. At that she scuttled off and found him. I explained that we had booked, pre-ordered and yet they still hadn't managed to get our food here on time. The attitude of the waiter hadn't helped either. He immediately sent a a free round of drinks and when I got to the till to pay there was no bill! A good result. Must have been sobering for him as there were about 15 of us!

Ooops. Impatient.

I never procrastinate. Well maybe a little. But only if I am...., well you know. Like you said. Tomorrow! Welcome to myLot by the way.

Thanks.

I thought the female half of all relationships was like your first paragraph!! LOL. I suffer from anxiety based depression. I'm clinically more anxious than I am depressed. So I brood. See the glass half empty and a myriad other things. Trying to think positively helps. Now I know that I am POSITIVELY anxious and stressed about things!! I may have misunderstood what I'm supposed to do with positive thinking. OMG. What if I have. What shall I do.....LOL.

I don't think that those things are too bad. At least you care which is more than can be said for some others. Don't overly stress though. What will be will be is my take on that.

I think that many of us conceal our anger and irritation. I struggle to get angry at all. Ten when I do, the reaction is usually disproportionate to the offence caused. I think that it good that you are able to see those that use you instead of those that want to be your genuine friend.

I'm sorry that you've had to wait three hours for my response then Opal. LOL. I have those traits and I am Aries. Maybe it's not the stars influence but the way that we are anyway. I get so impatient, except for things that I don't want to happen,

You will have worked out by now Humbug that I think that women are wonderful. So I guess that if you have all that lot then that's fine. Sorry. "Smoothy." Did you say? LOL.

You are, as always p1kef1sh, right - women are wonderful!!

If you see something that you don't like and are working to change it then that's a good thing Reckon.