males are better from females ?
By arshad_abbas
@arshad_abbas (65)
August 12, 2008 1:48pm CST
I think males are better from females because they having a strong mind strong body and also they having ability to doing hard work and also i think they are more brave from females.in All parts of life males are step forwared from females. these are points for discussion not for heart any body and also i am not personaly think like this what is the public opinion
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@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Well, it's mighty obvious you don't live in the USA. I know of many men that stay home and take care of the children and the home. I know of many women whom work and then take care of the home. Nowadays they can do all of that. It is gender that makes one more sensitive or caring or hard working or any of that. The individual needs to be looked at, not a race or gender or anything else. The most important strength we have isn't physical. It is strength of character. A single man or woman working two jobs and raising their children, and I mean literally finding time to spend with them and guide them I feel have to be the strongest.
Both men and woman work and can work the same venues. Both are human and have feelings, weaknesses and strengths that aren't determined only by their gender but also by the way they were raised, by societies ideals, and their peers. Their strength is how they deal with the hardships and how they celebrate the blessings.
A person with an open mind and an open heart is capable of so much more. Ignorance is a safety net that was created by the ideals of others.
My ideas of strength are from the inside, being able to be yourself, being able to grow on all levels, living your truth. The body eventually fails you, male or female. Inner strength will carry you far.
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
12 Aug 08
I meant to say it ISN'T gender that determines sensitivity. I should have proof read my comment. However, none of us are perfect.
@Carolyn63 (1403)
• United States
13 Aug 08
When I say, " Ignorance is a saftey net that was created by the ideals of others", I am saying that society, family and peers tell us what to think and believe. So do most religions for that matter. We feel secure in what is expected of us. Many people won't look for their own truth. See, in doing so, we make ourselves vulnerable to change and to ridicule. Many people would rather be whom and what they are told to be rather than stand on their own wisdom and understanding. We are judgemental and prejudiced because we are taught and shown to be that way.
How about some examples. My husband and I own a small auto repair shop. Many men come in and assume I don't know anything about cars. They will ask for the mechanic whom is my husband. Often times he has to tell them they could have and should have come to me. Besides knowing what I am talking about, I'm the one whom sets up the appointments, does the estimates and order the parts. I have worked on the cars as well.
Another example is I live in Alabama. There is still a lot of racism here. We have customers of all races. Though some people will think ugly of me for doing so, I treat all customers the same. And, if I see you out and public I will talk to you then too. If you hug my neck, I will hug you back be it here at work or in the middle of Wal-Mart. I don't just say I think and believe one way, I show it.
Thanks for asking.
Carolyn
@SummerChick (513)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I would just like to clarify, what's the point?
Are you pointing out about physical aspect? intelligence? gender dominance?
For what?
For all you know, this would just go within circles and nothing better will be achieved. Pointless discussion.
Would you rather be specific?
@arshad_abbas (65)
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12 Aug 08
I am asking for romance,cares,sensitive. there is no physical aspects i wanna know wt they are thinking about each other like life parteners who love more, who takes more care of childrens and home . some natural aspects in our lifes but both feel diffrent. this is not a pointless discussion because if i am male then my thinking is diffrent from women and if i am women then thinking diffrent from male.women is a Gift of GOD
@SummerChick (513)
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
I think you better clear it up, coz you mention on your main post about some physical attributes of men like having a strong body, can do more hard work and are braver than women. And now you are replying to me that it must only tackle on subject about love and romance and no physical aspects involve?
Still, I find it so gender driven and would only lead to going in circles thus making it a pointless discussion. To me, it will only end to some angst and domination issues that no benefit will be taken out of context.
No offense meant, but had you be specific about THE POINT of comparison between men and women, then it would have been better served.
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
13 Aug 08
Males are better than females??? where do you come from??? I know you say you don't want to hurt anyone so why are we disussing this? Males and females are equal, neither one is better than the other. Apart from physical differences both males and females can do hard work. Both males and females can achieve great things if they are not held back by their society and culture. There are obviously differences between the sexes but that does not make one inferior to the other.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
I think both are equal, not one gender is better than the other. Both have unique strengths and abilities that the other gender needs. I guess that is why a couple is a male and female because together they compliment and complete each other. They are like spoon and fork (or fork and knife, for other countries), you can eat with only a fork but is a lot easier if you have a knife or spoon to use. One gender can only survive without the other but is never complete alone.
@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
13 Aug 08
i don't think that either is better. each compliments the other, each completes the other. everyone has their ownn skills that they excell at more so than others, but without the others, the world would fall apart, women offer things men cannot, and vise versa. you cannot have a mother, without a father, both are needed and both are equal and should be treated as such
@youngsweetheart (772)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Neither males nor females are any better than the other. There are things men can do that women cannot; there are things women can do that men cannot. For example, childbirth. You cannot call any woman who's been through that a coward - pregnancy and childbirth are two of the scariest things on the planet.
You are entitled to your opinion, and I'm pretty sure you come from a vastly different culture than I do, so it's possible that where you are from that is a common belief. However, in North America and most of Europe, that is an outdated belief.
Let's face it, without both genders, the human race would die out - so we need both, and it's unfair to call one better than the other.
@arshad_abbas (65)
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12 Aug 08
u are right both are equals but they way of thinking are diffrent i think females are more sensitive vs males and also very cheerful
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
13 Aug 08
Glad you don't agree with those statements. I am female, and as for doing hard work and more brave, how about all the females that are police officers and firefighters, I'm a wildland firefighter myself. I also think most women have a strong mind and body, they can be very independent and don't have to have a man around to do everything. I personally think that there are very very few jobs that a man can do that a woman can't do. There are women in all professions now including construction (which I have also done), and many other male dominated careers.
@melcahjone (135)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
physically,men are stronger than women but intellectually and psychologically,i think women can handle themselves much better than men...
@FR35H_70_D347H (32)
• United States
12 Aug 08
Males and females are equal. Women can do the same thing men do. Sure men are bigger and stronger. But I'm sure there are some women out there who are stronger then some men, and are braver. But as females we usually use our brain more and have more common sense. We're also sweeter, more caring, and understanding. Men feel the need to prove themselves. Everything is always a competition with them. Without women men wouldn't know what to do with themselves(:
