sometimes it's good to let them know that someone else is interested in you!

United States
August 12, 2008 1:54pm CST
The last time I talked about my relationship with John, I said that I was considering breaking up with him and in fact, i told him that I wanted to break up because of his existing relationship with another female. Of course he told me that he was ending things with her and that his heart is with me and he loves me and yada yada yada! But there was one bit of information that I haven't shared with you guys. A few weeks ago I met this guy who I went to school with over 20 years ago. How did we meet you ask? Well I was working to work and looking rather nice that day when all of a sudden, this truck stopped, a man came out and just introduced himself to me. He said, "I am sorry, but I just had to get out the car and say something. Where are you going?" I am going to work I tell him. "You look like you are going to a party." No, I said, I work right there and he said, "oh okay". It was then that I recognized his face and I asked him what school did he attend and he told me and I was like, yeah, we went to school together and that was it. Eversince then we have been texting each other almost everyday. Now John and I are on serious rocky ground right now and he is trying to work his way into my life. Now this guy that I text, his name is Billy and John knows about him because I told him. I told how he texts me "Good morning sweetie" everyday and that he is very interested in us going out on a date. John asks me if I was thinking about going out for him and I said yes and of course he didn't want to hear that so he left. You see girls, he is not feeling good right now because now he sees that there is someone interested in me. I told him that he hurt me with all of this nonsense with this Allison chick and that there is nothing he could tell me and that if I decide to go out than I will. This is why people must be careful of what they put out because it will come back to you seven fold. You see how it was ok for him to have a relationship with someone else but now that the shoe is on the other foot, all of sudden we can't handle it, we're not liking it. Well too bad.
2 responses
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
13 Aug 08
Hey linda, Isn't that how it always is? It's always ok for them to do it, but then when the shoe's on the other foot they don't like it. I had the same situation sort of. My boyfriend said he doesn't care if I go out with someone because he was seeing someone when me and him started to see each other. He says he doesn't care if I go out with someone else. But, if I did I know it would bother him. Guys are such jerks. You should go out with this guy. It would serve John right and then you would see how much he really cares. Maybe you might like this guy Billy more. You should take a chance and see.
• United States
13 Aug 08
That's the same thing he told me Opal, that it's ok if I were to go out on a date with him because of what he did, however now he knows how often Billy and I are always texting each other and now he feels threatened. He is asking me now if he is going to lose me to Billy. As a matter of fact Opal, Billy was texting me while John and I were talking right, and then John says, "well let me leave so you can text Billy the Kid back". He gives everybody a name. But I am thinking about going out with him (at least once) when he comes back from Las Vegas. Thank you for responding and God Bless!
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
ahhmm,john can't really blame ya for doing so linda. but then,were you happyfor doing the same to him?i mean,do you think it's right to give him the dose of his own medicine?if yes, then i guess it was ok.though in my opinion,i won't do the same as you did.i'll probably just break up with him after i learned that he is seeing another girl.i won't stoop to his level to do the same thing as he did to me for i think,it's just not right.i know he was wrong,but then, i won't give him a reason to think that what he did is just right since you told him about this guy billy being interested with ya and you both keep txting each other.he'll probably doubt of you being nice enough gf that deserved to keep.coz for me,i would choose to leave him a nice impression of me and that it's his lose not mine.we all have different point of view,it's just depends on our personality.i respect your opinion dear,if that would make ya happy to get even,go for it.it won't kill him anyway..hahaha!..h0pe everything will be fine with ya dear,take care heaps!..="^_^"=
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• United States
13 Aug 08
Actually enihpesoj, the main reason why I still text him is because I realized that he was someone that I attended school with and so we were doing a lot of catching up and also, he was paying me attention. I, for the most part, do not believe in cheating and don't plan on having a serious relationship with Billy for I do want my relationship to work out with John. It's been over 5 years for us and the relationship he had with Allison is not so black and white. It's a long story. Thank you for your response and God Bless!