how do i talk to my sister after all these yrs

I have tried everyting with my sister. I helped her I helped her some more. And you know what. Come to find out after all these year's of trying and hoping my father was right. She is only out for her and what she can get for her. So now I try small talk. About her grandkids other wise when she turns to something like can you take me to store. No. Money. No. YOu want to talk about problems That I can do. Talk to her about childhood. Do you remember this that ect. Do all the fun things you remember no bad things. Try. And goodluck to you. As I'm still trying after all these years over 20 hoping she would change. Good luck I wish you all the best. Tell her how nice she looks.

Depending on why you two haven't spoke for so many years. Just go strong life is so short don't waste anymore time call her up!

How come you haven't talked to your own sister after all these years? Did something happen? Just be yourself, obviously your sister knows you pretty well if you spend your childhood together. She won't forget you so just go and talk to her normally as you use to.

Well, if you will be seeing her personally - a warm hug is a winner. I'm sure it might get into something once both of you will hug each other and the talks will follow. And you'll be fascinated that talks will be lighter and whatever issues that stucked within the years when you are not together will be easily brushed aback.

Why is it that you haven't spoken with your sister in years?