~Losing a friend~

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A bit of a dilemma going on in my real life folks. I have a "friend" and I will use that term very loosely. This friend is talking smack about me and saying that she is ending the friendship soon. Now this doesn't upset me in the least. It will actually relieve so much pressure that I'm experiencing. My question is, do I back out first or wait. I was quite shocked to find out this information. Now that I am aware of how my "friend" is feeling it's hard to communicate. What to do............HELP PLEASE