My fiance just called me and I am so sad...
By brisk123
@brisk123 (2823)
India
August 12, 2008 4:20pm CST
My fiance has been away from me since last 2 months due to his project overseas.This is the first time we have been separated from each other for long.We couldn't even celebrate his birthday together this time.It is sad,but then I thought he will be back by this month of August before 20th but lo,he just called me up and told that he needs to stay back till end of September.I feel like crying.I miss him lot.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Aug 08
i understand how you feel. before my boyfriend and i got together, we were apart for more than a year. it was a sad experience but i say, it was worth it. after the separation, we're now happily living together for more than a year now.
some sacrifices should be done sometimes. maybe it's for both of you... for your future and his. it's difficult to be away from him but he'll be home soon. just think that one day, you will be together again.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
12 Aug 08
"Some sacrifices should be done sometimes"..this is true.He too went there just for the sake of our better future.I understand everything but sometimes I miss him badly and I don't want to think right.I am just waiting for him to come home.Thank you friend for being so supportive when am feeling so lost.
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@angusthethird (515)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I am away from my wife for a week and it is hard. I miss hearing her speak, hearing her breathe, hearing her sing--in short, everything about her.
But I am doing a leadership training for an organization we're both involved in. She wanted to go too, but she had to work.
@highlyclever (1111)
• United States
12 Aug 08
How sad for you!
Are you only able to keep in touch by phone? Or do you also communicate with him by letters? Or by computer?
Separation is a sad time. Best wishes to you!@highlyclever (1111)
• United States
13 Aug 08
If you have ever seen the movie The Lake House (Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock), the two main characters are not able to be together, but there is a part where he sets up a "date" and takes her on a walk through the city - by sending her a letter and walking her through various places... Maybe you could arrange a "virtual date" with your fiance where you find several spots online (pictures of places in the world that you'd like to visit, etc.) and you would write a little letter for him to read as he visits each spot? Or maybe you could try some other variation on the date in The Lake House?
Best wishes!
@kukucz (10)
• Poland
13 Aug 08
Oh..I totally unrstand you. I live in England with my parents but I came from Poland and I have a boyfriend in Poland. I know how hard this is. Im on holidays in poland now so i can see him everyday but im coming back in 8 days.And i'll do everythink what I can to bring my boyfriend to england with me.Im going first so i can find a job and flat for him. Why can't you go to your boyfriend? Can'y you take vacations if your working? Or go and visit him eaven for couple of days that would be better then just waiting for him and missing him. If you can't do it then it would be harder.If you waiting for someone days feel like months and months like years.Try to be busy all time so you will have less time to think about him, and time will go pass quickier and he will come back! Any way don't worry!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
13 Aug 08
This is my problem,I can't go and see him.I have my responsibilities and work here.I just hope the time will not make us wait for long.I am happy for you,atleast now you are with him.Say my "hi" to him and wish you two love birds happiness.Enjoy the company and keep smiling!
