To get married or not?

I'd recommend getting married. Even if it is just for the child's sake. Their was a connection there to create the child, so they should be responsible now to support it.

hi there... hmmm... i think they should have a deep talk about this... whether they will do all they can to make the marriage work. i rather they get married in order that the child won't be illegitimate. however, marriage should not be compelled or forced.

I think their biggest issue right now should and would be raising this child. They have to make sure they have a roof over their head, steady jobs and sufficient funds to take care of the baby. If they give it the love and attention it needs and have the money to provide the basic needs of the child, I think this is more important than marriage. A marriage costs a lot and brings a lot of stress; they don't need that right now. Save up for a crib, clothing or whatever else you may need. Rushing into marriage isn't going to solve the problem, clear thinking and making plans for the future will. Once they have settled and have everything going they can get married and they will enjoy it more, have more time and money for it and they will do it out of love and free will.

you dont have to get married just because you got pregnant. I did that and now I am separated after 23 years of marriage. I could have taken care of my daughter by myself. It would be hard but I could have done it. It just depends on the person

if you are not ready to get married then dont. marrying someone is not a joke. its a big obligation and responsibility. not because your pregnant you will marry the person. why not think about it first. are you stable financial and emotional. if not then dont. if you are really for each other no matter what. you can still marry one another. but of course, it depends on both of you.

Don't marry out of convenience. If there is no love the child will suffer in the end. Vow to each other and to be that child that both dad and mom will be part of that kidlet's life, even if they are living separate lives.

Well if the couple is a minor it is not advisable to really be married at this early age. If they are both of marrying age then it is really up to them. Being pregnant is not the only reason to get married. You should really know if the two of you are really mature to be responsible enough to be married. Because, if not, then its better that you remain unmarried than be with a man or woman you never really meant to love.

Well if they truely love each other then why not? if they seem to be in doubts of each other then I suggest they should not get married. If they are still young as you say then so many more things will approace in their life lets not get hasty into marriage but truely no matter what happens the child still needs their support.