What will you do if u find out that ur 1-month long husband cheated u?

hi jan :) if it happens to me i guess ill talk with him why did he do that...cheating on me..but if it happens before marriage well i guess its a close book already and just forget about it. but if it happens when we were married i would still consider giving him another chance if he will still cheat on me because we are far apart from each other i guess ill wait for him to go home and settle things with him if he wants another girl well ill guess have to file an annulment:)

Wow, that is a complicated situation. I mean did he cheat while they were married or before they actually got married? I mean if it happened while they were married then I'd probably have to leave him, cause he obviously isn't ready to be married and settle down. If it happened before the marriage I'd might try to give him he benefit of the doubt but I'd be pretty upset for awhile and might just leave him and see if it really matters, if it does then I'll know he just might truly love me. But its hard, it really is. I hope she is alright.