Who will you choose? the Right one or the Right Now?
By blandz0416
@blandz0416 (99)
Philippines
August 13, 2008 7:20am CST
If given a chance who will you choose? the person whom you think is the Right one for you or the guy who is Right now with you???
I am committed with someone else, committed as in we are just waiting for the day of our wedding, but im still having doubt if i will do the right thing for i know at the back of my mind my past boyfriend who is not a husband material compare to my present boyfriend, is still the person i want to live forever. If you will be the one to choose, who will u marry the person who you think is the right one for you or the person who is right now with you and more responsible and just like what Ive said a husband material.
1 response
@poona_m (336)
• India
13 Aug 08
I would surely marry the right one as a commitment like marriage is for ever. Its not like a dance in a party where you have a choice to wait for the best dancer to offer you a dance or to dance with anyone that is available. marriage would last more than a night of dance so its very important that you choose the right person.
But in your case as you mentioned the person you are with now is the husband material. Then isn't he the right person to be with? If your ex is an ex now it means there was something wrong in that relationship and thats why he is an ex now. I am not sure what you are thinking but your statements and your situation that you mention seem to be contradictory. As in, if the person who is with you now is the right husband material then where does the case of choosing comes? here the right one and the right now are the same one.
I can understand how you feel about getting married and the worries and insecurity you might have about stepping into a new role but believe me you would be doing fine as long as you are honest with yourself.
