Have you ever loved someone that sucks out the energy from you?

My bf and I goes a long way back. It's been 5yrs since the first time i met him. It wasn't a great love story affair. But our love, and commitment bind us together and promise that we will stick through bad and good times. It's always bad times. Fight is just one of the bad factor in our relationship. Its part of a test. It's how the relationship grows. The more you get past through fights and make up,will makes your relationship even more stronger. True it can really suck out your energy. It's because you truly love her. I have accepted my flaws and partners flaws. You can't change what he likes, and he cant change what i like. If you two crashes and fights over your differences and just give up, then it will never work out. Fighting him would prove how selfish i am. If its too much, then give it a space and think about it before you said something hurtful to her. Love is not all about happiness. Love comes with pain. You need to compromise. You need to step back and give her some times off. If she gives up, then let her go. Love is about letting go. But always be honest with your feelings. However painful it was, you need to let your lover knows how much it hurts you or how sorry you cause her pain.

Yes, my present boyfriend suck out my energy most of the time. I can still tolerate it but sometimes I am really pissed of. He is a very jealous guy.