Is it possible for crushes to come first before friendship?

@djoyce71 (2511)
Philippines
August 13, 2008 8:23am CST
Crush first before friendship. Is it possible? Why do you think so?
5 responses
@dagda24 (366)
13 Aug 08
Personally, if I develop a crush on someone I don't really know then I tend to become nervous around them and tis prevents a friendship from developing. All of the successful relationships I've had have started with friendship, then stronger feelings have developed. Everyone is different though so others probably have different experiences.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Hi there! For me it is really possible that crush could come first before friendship. Crush or infatuation is a more physical thing and is usually felt when you consider someone gorgeous, beautiful or handsome though you don't really know the person. Friendship on the other hand has a deeper meaning. You feel it when you already have bonded with or known the person for sometime. Ciao!
@Tasche (138)
• Ethiopia
13 Aug 08
Some relationships need true words before you recongnize how precious the person you love is and the truth often ends in a crush.
• India
13 Aug 08
definitely u can have crush on some1 just by looking at him/her so yup, that can come before friendship
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@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
13 Aug 08
Not for everyone. Some may have. Just saying this out my day to day experiences. Thats what love is. It will not suddenly happen like a boom. It will gradually come in our mind. Very pleasant feeling. Everyone should have that feel in their life time. Take Care.
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