Would you tell your husband?
By snowbitz
@snowbitz (487)
Philippines
August 13, 2008 10:19am CST
I have a big problem with my sister-in-law and i am very confused whether to tell my husband or not.She have this attitude of wearing things that are not hers.Sometimes she would wear my sisters clothes and it came to a point that not only my sisters clothes she wears.I really want to tell her but it ended up with we were the ones who are ashamed to tell her.And my relationship with her is now in jeopardy because of what she is doing.I don't want to give my husband a problem because he is working abroad right now.But should i do with her?Please mylot family i know what i must do but i need some opinions and ideas how to break it to her gently.
2 responses
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
13 Aug 08
I know that 2 of my sisters in law wouldn't do such a thing. At least not without asking. The 3rd I don't know. But she lives far enough away it wouldn't be an issue. I would tell MY hubby. But I tell him everything. I don't know what I would do if he were away. Maybe you could sit down with her and tell her what you have noticed. Ask if she is having some problem you could help her with.
@snowbitz (487)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
You have a very good point there.But i am very hesitant to do that because she might get angry with me.Actually she is living with me i tried so many times telling her but i don't know how to begin because what we are going to talk about is going to hurt her and its a little bit awkward. Because i myself can't believe that she would use some of my sisters under garment.I hope you know what i mean. I tried asking some help with her mother but the problem is .She would be here i don't know when.I let my mother in-law get involve with this because i really don't know where to begin and i don't want her denying something to her mother if i will kick her out of my house.I hope i am doing right.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
16 Oct 08
i'm glad that my sister-in-law isnt like that. anyways, she cant really wear any of my clothes as she is a big woman. my clothes wont fit her. even if she did do it to me, i would tell it to my husband. i dont really like anyone wearing my clothes as i do take care of my clothes and things a lot. other people just dont care about other people's stuff. they stain it or break it
