Do you have an annoying friend or could you be the annoying friend??

i have annoying friend in ma life..i have 6 dear friends from ma schooling and now am in college..here i don't have anybody so dear the reason is perhaps their character..but a girl from here always wanna talk with me...alright ,i thought i have got a new one...she was up to ma expectations and of ma character..very good in studies and intelligent and hard-working,no unwanted ideals or behaviors...yet she is very possessive...she don't like me talking to any one around ma college..she knows very well that i don't have any dear friends here but she puts herself under a sorrow..even if someone says "hi",she would ask me who's that?do you know her before?is she dear to you more than me?...i couldn't understand her psychics though she is a year elder to me...she keeps annoying me and wanna get rid of her...

I live in a building where most of the people have mental health problems. One of the women that lives here has sort of "adopted" me as her friend. Of course I have my own problems or I wouldn't be living here but I'm smart enough to take my medication and nobody would know that I had them. One of her problems is that she repeats everything she does and says...because she won't take her meds! I try to explain that if she did she would not have this problem but she won't listen to me. Yes, she is driving me crazy to the point that I try to avoid her...I feel bad but I have to think of my own sanity!

I think the person would want to know. I also think there is a way You can say something, without anything hitting the fan, but I warn You to carefully plan out what Your going to say and set up a time to say it. In other words think about it decide what to say and then make a plan of when to say it. In other words You call Her when Your time comes, and You know what exactly You will say. I apparently am needy and I was totally oblivious. My best friend put it that way to Me. I was hurt but I know I shouldn't have been She did Me a great big favor pointing it out to Me. She didn't do it mean either or nasty, or angry. I surely wish She would have pointed it out to Me sooner but.... Glad She did so at least when She did. I swear I have tried to be better and I imagine in some ways I Am and in some ways I Am not. I hope She has and does enjoy some of the added "peace" She has afforded Herself for saying so. I honestly had NO idea. I should have but like I said I was oblivious. I definately remind You to plan out the action and set up a time and then call and say something. If You just can't call then make it so Your prepared the next time the phone rings and it's Her after You have determined what You will say. I hope You can enjoy some of the added "peace" You may afford Yourself for piping up. Not to mention I hope She can accept that She is in need of something more than You have for Her. God Blesses! May He bless You abundantly with the words and wisdom to hit the nail on the head concerning this friend and friendship. Sandy