the most difficult role!!!!!!!!!!

When I was still younger than today, I used to think being a daughter is really hard, since from the very start, I endeavored to keep to my Papa's standards, I yearned to please him and it was rather hard to please my father! When I got married, I thought it was difficult to be a wife as well. I mean, I did everything that I can to save the marriage. I had been a good wife. I do all the house chores, I served my ex-hubby, gave him everything that he wanted, even giving up my job to satisfy him, to no avail. It's hard to be a wife since you are expected to accept everything that your husband shows you, even all the cruelty that you experience in his hands. It was extra difficult for me since I have to pretend the marriage was fine despite enduring a year of being a punch bag. Now that I'm about to become a mother, I realized this will be the most challenging role that I'll play so far. It's a real different story to have a life growing within you. It's not easy to make sure everything will be fine during the 9 months that you carry a baby. And it's just the beginning! When the child comes out, what will I do? How will I manage? I'm a single Mom, and my family and friends have "abandoned" me because I'm having this baby who isn't by my ex-hubby. I guess it will be the hardest phase of my life, but I'm sure it will be the most rewarding ever.

I'm gonna go with the mother role... cause its so dificult to raise a kid and be patient wih him/her and at the same time being aware of what you should teach him/her to be a good human being

although i am single and i have no kids, i think mother would be a difficult role. if u r married to the right man, than wife shouldnt be that hard because husband and wife usually complement one another and become one.

Mother for sure. What an awesome responsibility. And the job comes with no instructions. Each case is different, and each parent has to do the job making the rules up as they go (well, except the very basic, bare-bones rules like manners, etc). And it is a role that never ends. Once you are someone's mom, you are always that person's mom! No greater role, in my opinion.

i think it's being a mother.

A womans role as a wife comprises of so many duties and responsibilities .. for example a as a wife she is taking care of the family, family is wife to the husband, mother to the child, daughter in law to the husbands family. My vote is wife.

I think my most challenging role is that of mother. I am responsible for bringing my children up to be healthy, contributing members of society. I want them to be well behaved, well adjusted and I want them to be able to think for themselves.

i think the wife. because a wife play the whole woman role like, mother, sister, daughter and wife also.

I think it changes depending on the time in your life. Right now it is mother for me. I have kids that range from 22 down to 3 and they are almost all totally dependent on me. I have to balance between providing for them, teaching them, letting them grow and become their own person. It is very difficult to find that balance. As my parents are getting older I see the role as a daughter getting harder as there will be a time that I will have to be there for my parents just like they have been there for me for so many years. I am beginning to think that that will be a very important role and probably the most difficult. Its hard to think that someday you will have to take care of your parents and they will no longer be able to take care of you.

i feel tht mothers role is difclt but ...t role of a dad, husband is also equally painful...ervry role has its own prblms....so we cant judge tht here

it is a mother becuase your the one responsible to run a family