falling out of love

Philippines
August 13, 2008 10:26pm CST
How would you know if you have fallen out of love? How can you possibly step out of a relationship - the peaceful way?
10 responses
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Well I guess I've fallen out of love if I no longer care for the person. Steping out is the easiest way just simply talk sincerely to one another and simply move on.
14 Aug 08
you will know in ur haert when you dont love him/her anymore. like when you dont want to see him/ her anymore, and its like you dont have any patience for him/her. to break up, just be totally honest why you dont love him anymore. and never give false hope. just be HONEST.
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
hi, hhhmmm. Well, i think you would definitely know, feel when you have fallen out of love, but true love never fade, probably just get tired but never really gone. Getting out is hard, if the feeling is not mutual. Why not stay for more, maybe something good might happen next. But if you love someone else, or no effort comes from both of you...maybe you'd better be just friends. =)
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Hi there! I think the first sign one would experience if they have fallen out of love is when they don't miss the person if they don't see each other for a long time. You would also feel that you lack enthusiasm in talking to your partner somewhat like loosing interest on the person. If you feel that you might be falling out of love with your partner I suggest you try and talk it over with your partner. Be honest with him. Open up to him your true feelings and let him understand you. Maybe you can tell him that its better off if you'd stay as friends. Some relationships are better off as friends than lovers. Hope that helps. Ciao!
@rkrish (3003)
• India
14 Aug 08
love can be taken over only by the next love, in closing the previous one is very hard and it will take time. You need to be unanswered for all and keep saying my interest has reduced in other relationship, by changing your habits you can come out easily and you can say your unwillingness also
@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
14 Aug 08
the only way for you to peacefully walk away from a relationship is for 1= for both people to be out of love and 2= for both people to be mature. otherwise someone is always going to be upset. as for the falling out of love part, when you look/think about that person and you get butterflies thats when you are IN love. when you see that person and you're like 'hmm' and shrug your shoulders as if saying 'him again' thats when you are out of love. i do think that there is a difference between being IN love and just plain simple loving someone.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
14 Aug 08
It is hard to accept that fact. Stepping out of a relationship is not that easy. The other person will definitely get hurt by it even when we say all the troubles that the relationship have. Our mind can accept all those facts but it won't reach the heart. It pains a lot.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Only you will know my dear. When there is no more spark , no more excitement, when you become bored of him and his company, when there is no more care and you begin to look for someone or something else when you will not even mind him getting out of your sight or not even hearing from him. When you desire to be with other people rather than with him. To step out from the relationship then tell him the truth and ask for a break up direct to the point.
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
we never step out of a relationship in a peaceful way i mean the other party will still get hurt even you explain it in a nice way..
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
if you dont like him to see anymore. if you dont him to hug and kissed you. if you feel like irritated everytime you are with him. your not happy anymore if you are together.
@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
if you feel that you are not happy anymore and that there is no more trill and interest in the relationship, then it means you have fallen out of love. Stepping out peacefully means being honest to your partner about what you feel, not prolonging his or her agony.. pretending that you still love the person is a mortal sin. So be honest..at least he or she can get over the pain easily