Have you ever been rejected..?
By Odamashin
@Odamashin (434)
Philippines
August 13, 2008 11:44pm CST
I have experienced being rejected for several times..for the job that I am applying for..i really felt bad and so depressed..that time..to the point that I felt anger to that person who is in charged in hiring employees..i really hate her..So,that time I started to give up applying in any companies related or the same as the work I've been applying for..but rejected me..
How about you,have you ever been rejected? How does it feel?
6 responses
@Rintis (646)
• India
14 Aug 08
Yes, I have been rejected on many occasions. I do feel bad at that moment but later I just forget about it. I consider it the other party's bad luck for rejecting me. If you think you are capable and good think that you were too good for them hence you got rejected. Rejection is a part of life. Treat it like a Hit-Me doll which helps us bounce back with more power and fighting spirit and eventually make you a winner. Best Wishes. take care.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
Thanks a lot..i'm really inspired with what you said..
yeah consider it as their lost not mine!lol
Good day!
@eddiechoohn (340)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 08
Here..take my arms..HUG HUG...does it feel better? Go take a nap..Think and go dream bout someone who loves you..Thinbgs will defenitely get better when you wake up
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
No..for me t's not! it will not definitely gone when i woke up..as in it's still fresh for i think almost a month..but now..i've moved on..and it's totally out of my mind..i never mind it though..
thanks for the comfort..good day!
@satyakam (1112)
• India
14 Aug 08
Dear friend dont worry,every person in their life must have been rejected some where be it n job area or any other field,so pl dont loose cool,this will not help you.You should try at others place ,you will be selected one day if you have got the talent no body can stop you.
@jaffna (778)
• India
14 Aug 08
its really disgusting to hear...am too on those kinda occasions ...i've been rejected in an interview due to an academic gap...i've made decision thats ma first and final campus interview that was attended by me..am now looking for only other walk-in jobs....do remember that the person who rejected you might have already been rejected several times by someone..just believe in yourself that you are too much capable of getting a very high job...god doesn't wanna you to indulge in small companies...take the very example of henry ford and bill gates...who gave them the job?people never thought that they would be more successful as of now...just see their status now.... wishes to become an other big personality of the world...i strongly believe that most of the achievers of the world were once the rejected ones....
@tapnaroy12 (875)
• India
14 Aug 08
Hi Odamashin. You are not the single person, who is being rejected. Most of us are being rejected in some time in some areas of life. Obviously, initial reaction is frustration out of desparation. But as our minds calm down, we try to find out why we were rejected. There must be something that we are lacking. So being rejected means it opens a new window to you to improve yourself.
I looked at the matter this way in my life. What's your opinion?