If you fell in love to the person you think he's/she's the ONE would you....

@sharie16 (2212)
Philippines
August 14, 2008 11:58am CST
stop something that they really hated (like smoking, drinking alcohol...etc..) What are your thoughts for these?
4 responses
• United States
17 Aug 08
no they have to accept you for what you are those are things they already knew about you before they fell in love its unconditional other than that its not true love unless you are abusing those things and they put you in harms way other than that dont stop what you enjoy for nobody.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
18 Aug 08
I respect your opinion my dear! But stopping you from your bad habbits is not for her own good but actually yours...She/he wanted the best for you and not the worst thing...Good to know that if she/he does this, he loves you in a way that he/she is concern with your health..Am i right with that?
• United States
14 Aug 08
I would try my darn hardest to quit my bad habits that the person who I think is the one to make them happy anything for them usually within reason
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
absolutely...it would really be hard to quit but its worth it, for theres a good reason behind it....
@mamaK947 (63)
• United States
14 Aug 08
If the person really hated my habit and i believed he was the one for me i would try my hardest to quit. I myself dont drink or smoke and probably never will get into these things because my family was a warning to what i'd become if i did start (abusive drunks and obsessive smokers). and i dont want that for me or my children.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
yes, thats the thing we should bear in mind...we should not be a bad model to our children...
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
14 Aug 08
When we commit ourselves for love, it will not be a burden for us to stop those habits. When we think committed, we will want our partner to be happy. So it will be easy to stop and if i were in that situation i would definitely do. The only one thing that i hate to do is to study.. hehe. For main exam atleast i will study something. For class tests i never open my book. Actually i won have the book at all. But he wished me to change for my internals. I did. I studied just because he said me to and scored well in that particular semester.
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
your right if we really mean commitment then we should change for the better...and thus studying is for your own good, your lucky because your boyfriend was a good influence to you and he never push you to be bad...