Which is the one question that

Questions - Certain questions are not welcome by us.
By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
August 14, 2008 12:38pm CST
you don't like to be asked?
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10 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
14 Aug 08
Oh, just the one my friend? Hmmm let me think. The number one question I hate being asked is what do you do for a job? I go cold inside because straight away people judge me when I tell them I am not currently working, you can see it on their faces straight away and I find it embarrassing, very embarrassing, I have to admit I have lied in the past about it and it saves me a lot of hassle, I just base it on where I used to work and that satisfys them, otherwise I would be treated with hostility, it is not my fault I am not currently working, but to others they think you are less of a man if you don't work and don't know the real reason.
@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Aug 08
We know what we are doing Wolfie. I just hate personal queries. They serve no purpose.
@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
14 Aug 08
Hi! The one question I don't like to be asked is: Are you from Holland? Are you Dutch? Then I feel like a parrot! Explaining the same thing over and over again. I am from Canada, but have lived in Holland,Belgium,Saudi Arabia,Curacao, and now I live in Berlin. I don't feel like anything other than a person. Who is trying to make ends meet. Take care, Margajoe
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@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Aug 08
And why people are asking this question? May I ask?
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@Margajoe (4746)
• Germany
30 Aug 08
Hi, Very funny,LOL! Take care, Margajoe.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
3 Sep 08
Honestly there arent any questions that bother me....In fact I usually encourage ppl to "just ask" and am very willing to be open and honest about my life...
@balasri (26537)
• India
5 Sep 08
I am tempted but nothing come to my head now.
@littleowl (7157)
14 Aug 08
Hi bala-mine is about my personal life as I am a very private person you friend littleowl
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@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Aug 08
I too hate it to the core.The personal prying is too much in this part of the world.
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• Finland
14 Aug 08
Maybe: why do you suck at everything? :) Nobody has asked that... Yet... But that's one question I wouldn't like to hear in the future either.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Aug 08
Got the message and I for one will never ask that.
• Finland
23 Aug 08
Well, thank you for that
• India
14 Aug 08
Hi balasri you have put me in stuation to think very hard. I guess i don't like to be asked, "what don't you liked to be asked?" I'm not kidding Because, really i had to go through all the questions those so people asked me. Person to person it varies -- who is asking what. May be if something my boss ask me I won't mind whereas if the same thing is being asked by a co worker I may not like. But in general, I think i don't like to asked what i don't like to be asked.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
5 Sep 08
Now I feel sorry that I asked this question to you.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Aug 08
What would you like to have? As a child I remember hating this as a visitor. Complan or cold drinks? Complan I hated since forever and soft drinks my mom wouldn't allow so I would have to end up having nothing! As a kid that was too troubling. It was like giving up on the world! lol.. As a grownup the same question annoys me. I have started to avoid both for the diet thing! But have to agree on one in order to keep up with the decorum. What an irony! *laughs*
@balasri (26537)
• India
21 Aug 08
I will never ask that question when you visit me.I know how to treat a lady.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
2 Sep 08
It will depend, WHO is asking the question, whether someone is asking the question on Mylot (i.e. on-line) or in real life. My answers would be different in both the cases.
• India
18 Aug 08
To me When some one asks "why you have refused promotion in your Job"
@balasri (26537)
• India
18 Aug 08
You can say that it is a slip of your tongue.
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
"Why are you not pregnant yet?" Well, it's been a year since my husband and I got married and we are not trying hard to have a baby as yet and people keep asking . Why can they not respect our privacy .
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Sep 08
It sure is very very annoying especially with the ones who are trying hard tohave babies but couldn't.