Help me urgent !!!!!!!!!!!!!

India
November 5, 2006 12:00am CST
I love one girl & i wanaa marrige with her , but her parents not agree for that , i just go to one astologer he ask me dont do love marrige it creates big problem in future , but i cant live without her & she cant live without me . Help us what we do can i go with that astologer or not ....
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12 responses
@amsharma (1860)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I understand your situation, because your indian and that is just how your culture goes. However, you need to grow up a little bit and have a talk with your parents. Let them know that you understand how tradition goes and you are not trying to hurt them by going against your wishes. I know you want to respect your parents, but you are an adult now and they must respect yours as well. Its a tough situation. Im sorry you are going through this. I wish you the best.
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• India
5 Nov 06
My parents knows everything and they agree for my marrige but the new problrm creates that astologer ..
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• India
21 Nov 06
I do the marrige with her ...
@amsharma (1860)
• United States
5 Nov 06
You cant let some so-called astrologer tell you what to do with your life. Love marriages are not bad.
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• Indonesia
5 Nov 06
you are a man . as a man you have to make a bave decision. Marry her....
• India
5 Nov 06
yeah i go for marry with her .....
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@getnbuy (1312)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Does she love you? If so, find out why her parents don't like you. Do what you can to prove to them that they are wrong, by being the best person you can be. I do not believe in astrologists, either. Use your common sense.
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• India
5 Nov 06
Thnx for ur advise acttully i m ready for marrige ....
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• United States
5 Nov 06
(stealing a line from Coming to America) Go ahead honey take a chance, if you're really a prince I'd marry you. Ok honestly, it doesnt matter what her parents think or feel, they are already together thats how they created her, noe let her make the choice and if its how you say it is, go ahead and get married of course you're gonna have to deal with the in-laws acting stupid because you are married but who's gonna pay the bills in your house (YOU) who's gonna take care of your wife (YOU) who's gonna be there when she needs attention (YOU) so YOU need to do whats right for you and that astrology mess is crap
• India
5 Nov 06
Hey sweetu good answer ... I think if she is not in my life i surely marry with you ....
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• India
5 Nov 06
if both of u love each other,,then y consult an astrologer.belive in your love & try to work the marriage out cause it is you people who make the marriage successful not an astrologer.n u make your own destiny not others.
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• India
5 Nov 06
Thnx ur right dont think about asrloger ....
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@suzieque (2334)
• Canada
5 Nov 06
Try to talk to her parents and tell them you both love each other! What is the reason that they are against it?? If they still disagree, then run off and elope. It's not her parents decision. It's between you and your partner!
• India
7 Nov 06
Thnx for the answer dear ....
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
5 Nov 06
You said she cant leave without you, i believe she really love you. Taka time and think hard, ask yourself if you really love her. Coz anything might happen in the future, you can work it all out becoz of your great love for each other. If you dont love her, the astrologer is right, the marriage wont work out. I dont believe in astrology myself, I follow mh heart and think many times before i do ant actions, mostly when it comes to the one I love..
• India
5 Nov 06
Thnx for ur reply so u mean i just go for marrige dont think about future ....
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@fubugirl (912)
• United States
5 Nov 06
i say marry her!! Elope!! just go off and get married and after the wedding tell her parents c how they like that! & to me her parents seem like faggs!! lol! =]
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@amsharma (1860)
• United States
5 Nov 06
That was a really immature thing to say. It is their culture dude. I dont agree with it either, but its not easy to just go against your parents when you have been raised that way all your life.
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• India
7 Nov 06
Hey don't you leave that girl if you really love her and these ASTROLOGERS have no other work they themself don't know about their future what will they tell bout your's see if you both love & understand each other its better for you that you become one by marrying each other Regards To both of you
• India
7 Nov 06
Thnx for ur reply but her parents are agaienst our marrige...
• Pakistan
5 Nov 06
JK - N
GO AND DO THE COURT MARRIAGE BE BRAVE AND RUN WITH HER
• India
6 Nov 06
Hey i dont do anything like that .....
• Indonesia
5 Nov 06
is there any reason why her parents dont agree? there must be a way to talk about it. try to talk to the parents and explain your feelings. about the astrologer..i dont really believe them.
• India
5 Nov 06
Thnx for ur reply ........
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• India
6 Nov 06
Hello friend i hope you don't mind yes i will help u 1st.......mmmmmmmmmmmm she agree to marry you even though her parents disagree about this try to convience them at that time also if they behave like that think about your futher with out her u can't live go away from them after some time they change their attitude. If their is any problem take suppor of police it is not crime if you both are majors.......... FINALLY I SUGGEST U DON'T LOSE HER&AT THE SAME TIME DON'T BELIVE THE FRAUDS(astloger)........... It's your life they can't froetell about their futher how can they predict your futher it's 21centurey don't bre like that ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh it' s midnight byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee takecare please reply me i am waiting for your reply
• India
7 Nov 06
Yaar i dont know what to do ? I agree with ur some comments but i dont agree with all this . provide me any another solution .....