Some Parents should have there children and others shouldn't

I'm butting out. I told her what to do so it is up to her. She says she's going to where the father live's and get a lawyer to handle it. I like the child and all, but he has to many problems for me. If you had read any of my othe pices on him.

Obviously butting out is a problem because you are writing about it on this site. It has you tied up in knots and feeling like you need to do something. If this other person doesn't do what they say then it's still in your court. Once any adult becomes aware of abuse the option to butt out is no longer there. Loose sleep at night, write about it, until you know some type of action has been taken you will still be bothered by it. If anything happens the child then it's on you because you knew something might have been happening. That's what is wrong with America today. We all want to say, "It's not my problem. I'm staying out of it. It's not my business. Parents or guardians can raise their kids how they see fit." Today children are hurt and bleeding or being psycholigical abused and someone knows and is not doing anything. If your thinking I'm probably the nosy lady on the street that calls the cops all the time. Yep! Your right. There's always a good reason to call the cops when I did so. People don't hit their children around me and when I find out about possible abuse I report it to the appropriate people. There's nothing wrong with making an anonymous call to children's welfare. Let them determine what's going on. Is it just a troubled child, are the guardian's overwhelmed by the child's problems and don't know how else to deal, or is something more insiduous going on. Sorry I don't agree with just washing your hands of it. If you make the call then the ball is no longer in your court. It's in the state child protective agency's court.

tsk,tsk, tsk, touched a sore spot did I. Your statements just blasted thru my computer screen. There must be something up because you're so angry about it. Do or not do anything about what you may or may not know. It's your conscience and you must live with it.

That is what I told her. Wheather or not she is going to do it or not is up to her. I can only tell her what I think and what I would do if I was her.