do you really love the one your with right now?
By pooh923
@pooh923 (94)
Philippines
August 14, 2008 4:26pm CST
my partner and i are almost on 2 years in our relationship. we've had the moments when one suddenly breaks up with the other(which he does most of the time) and moments when we had so much fun together and just enjoy each others company. we also had made that vow to love each other and would want to spend our lives together. if you ask me if o love my partner, i would utter a confident and loud YES! to that. but the most critical part is that, i really don't know if the love i have for him is enough to make him stay and love me endlessly. coz there's nothing really constant in this world except change but i also firmly believe that once you find that one you feel that you/d want to spend a lifetime with, you'll do everything you can to keep that person happy with you coz i believe that there is such a word as FOREVER!!! and i believe, deep inside, that me and my partner will have a lifetime together. not just because of love but coz i feel that we have a connection, we share best interests with each other, share hobbies and likes in life(even fave foods, colors, pets), though we're not really bestfriends but we know how to feel for each other. i just hope that this forever that i believe in will would really come true.
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16 responses
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
15 Aug 08
I love the person I'm with very much. 
We have been together for more than 10 years. Your discussion has made me realize what's really important 
- to make the other person happy. There will be ups and downs in a relationship and there were some down periods with mine. I think it's important for both parties to work together to improve on their relationship and mend whatever that's wrong with it.
We have been together for more than 10 years. Your discussion has made me realize what's really important - to make the other person happy. There will be ups and downs in a relationship and there were some down periods with mine. I think it's important for both parties to work together to improve on their relationship and mend whatever that's wrong with it. 
@RhythmWalker1 (825)
• United States
15 Aug 08
Love must be a 50/50 thing. It's all about giving and taking and allowing each
other the right of their own opinion. The biggest woe in any relationship is money
issues. My advice to any young couple just starting out would be to wait several
years before having children.
Love grows if and when we allow it to. Every time you argue you scar the heart
and soul of love unless you can kiss it and make it better very quickly.
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@littleone3 (2063)
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15 Aug 08
Yes i love the person i am with very much he is the most important person to me after my children.
He also loves me very much.
We have been together for three and half years, the best time of my life.
We want to spend the rest of our life together.
@lovely092101_ph (52)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
oh yes...luckily my bf and I we are going on our 7th yr this coming September. never that easy, had some ups and downs...and still having. ;) but no one said it will be easy anyway. and yes pooh923, there's no such thing as forever. but we are dreamers, so we still believe in happy endings. ;)
@shana123 (2095)
• India
15 Aug 08
I love my guy so much yes even we had many problems and sometimes i avoid him like anything because i dont like the way he is moving with others.But, even during our bad times i just think and dream of him.. He is too far away from me im missing my guy like anything im like a fish which cries inside the water, this poor fish's cry cannot be sensed by anyone except GOD., He wants me to first to complete my education and marry him so im wanting to complete my degree soon and marry him very soon.Im very happy and turning out like a kid when im with him, he pampers me like pet when we are together .. and in short i really really really love him... like anything and im so satisfied with him!!!
@andyel2023 (218)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
I am very happy with the one i am with right now...I love him so much...and so does he...though now that i'm not in school he really takes time to visit me herein our house...we're together for 2 years and 5 months already..and i am very happy of it ...because this was my first serious and long relationship and i know it will last..^_^
@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
without any doubts, YES...I dearly love my boyfriend...eventhough we sometimes had arguments, fight, i know its part of relationship, and thats the good thing, we overcome them...Thats part of life and thats part of being inlove...It feels good to know and to feel that we are being loved by the person we love..right?, there are some couples that in a relationship, but they are not happy...but me, i can proudly say, im so much HAPPY where i am right now, with the relationship i am into...i just love the feeling of being in a cloud nine days...eventhough his telling me that im the one (which i think it should be 
) i cannot assure the situation or circumstances...but as of now, i know and im sure that im SO MUCH IN LOVE with my BOYFRIEND and i hope that would stay FOREVER...
, there are some couples that in a relationship, but they are not happy...but me, i can proudly say, im so much HAPPY where i am right now, with the relationship i am into...i just love the feeling of being in a cloud nine days...eventhough his telling me that im the one (which i think it should be ) i cannot assure the situation or circumstances...but as of now, i know and im sure that im SO MUCH IN LOVE with my BOYFRIEND and i hope that would stay FOREVER... @stevensteady (30)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 08
currently i'm a single boy.. i have been in love 3 times before.. wel.. sure i relly do love her if i having relation wif any gal.. it's feels like u jus blinded by love.. you will jus do everything for her.. hm.. well.. cant guarantee u will happy if she's happy.. but u'll definitely felt sad when u saw her moody or sad.. back to the question, i wont togeter wif a gal if i dun hav any feel on her like love her.. tat's all
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
We can never be sure of what tomorrow may bring, and loving someone so much is not a guarantee that he would not leave you. The best thing you have to do is to leave something for you. yes love the person you are with right ow but never love more than you love yourself. It is better that you are ready when everything did not turns well. As for me, yes I do love my husband, I really do. We are on our 8th year this year. we started to b friends, no actually more of me stalking him LOL. Then we became a couple and lived together for 3 years then we got married and we now have 3 boys. I am happy with him but I still think about days that I would wake up and he does not love me anymore. I was always telling him that if there ever comes a time that he decide to lave me it's ok as long as he would support my kids. of course that was hypothetical but I was just telling it him as a joke. we were always joking about him being unfaithful to me. but I know it is a joke. and I think the only thing that can make you stay stronger is have fun and trust each other and always communicate.
@shinestar01 (28)
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15 Aug 08
o(n_n)o...I do not have a boyfriends! So I can not answer your question! But my bestwish for you! and i send you some words."tolerant,believe,love"
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
very much, we have been together for more than two years, running 3 years actually and we still act like we are new couples.we never get tired of talking and we never run out of topics to talk about. we surprise each other and we never get tired of saying how much we love each other!! i love him so much and he loves me the same way!! and that's very happy.. i cant imagine being with somebody else!
we never get tired of talking and we never run out of topics to talk about. we surprise each other and we never get tired of saying how much we love each other!! i love him so much and he loves me the same way!! and that's very happy.. i cant imagine being with somebody else!
@shadowkill (148)
• Philippines
15 Aug 08
actually... I didn't believe in that thing called love...
for in the first place I did not know how can you determine that it is love.
As with the one who's with me right now... am happy to be with him...
though we never really share words such As "I love you"...
what both of us share though is a mutual understanding, with regards to every aspect in life...
And for us it is enough...
