Am planning to leave my job, is it wrong?
By brisk123
@brisk123 (2823)
India
August 14, 2008 4:58pm CST
Actually me and my fiance we are planning to get married soon.I am working in a company, but I want to leave my job after marriage.My parents and friends are not allowing me to take such decision but I will love to be a stay at home future wife and mother.Is this wrong?I know am earning good and I am independent right now but now I want to devote my full time to my home responsibility.Everyone is saying I am making a mistake,am I?
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2 responses
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Aug 08
If you don't think it's a mistake, if you can afford financially to do it, if you believe you will love what you are going to be doing, then no, it isn't a mistake.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
14 Aug 08
I know I will love to be stay at home wife and mum for my kids.I don't enjoy going to work and doing office job.I enjoy more doing household chores and cooking.But, all my loved ones are not in favour of this decision.Maybe later, I can go back to work if I want to.
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@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
16 Aug 08
Hi,brisk,being a full-time household wife is not wrong,you can totally devote yourself in cooking delicious dishes waiting for your husband to come back,cleaning the house in order to have a fresh environment and a good view.that's right.and when you two have babies,you can take good care of them and be close to them.that's really a good wife as well as a great mom.but if i were you,i would choose to continue my work career,because i still want to be independent financially,i want to be strong.having your own work doesn't mean that you will lose part of your household responsibility,on the contrary,you can have access to more people and may make good friends with your colleagues,thus you have branched out your social circles instead of just staying at home and be oblivious to the outside world.as a woman,we can guarantee that all the things now you have will have forever,i don't curse something here,but it is really a reality.all the things are constant,so we should have a great command of knowledge and have our own career in order to live a more protective life.take care.