how often you argue with your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife?

We didn't use to argue ever and now it's all the time, but we're having problems. Neither condition is normal. I think normal couples argue every now and then but the really successful ones know how to argue, ie not being mean or judgemental, but making your point and listening to the other person's point.

Me and my bf have been arguing a lot because we never see eachother. He lives about an hour away. But we always make up so its all good.

Had you asked this question when I was still married to my ex-husband I would have said all the friggin time lol, it seemed like there was not a day go by that we didn't argue about something. However, I have been with my s/o for a little over 3 years now, and we have never had an arguement. I'm not sure why, but we just never argue, maybe it's because we are both more easy going now, or we've both had enough arguing with our ex's to last a life time. We've both been divorced 3 times. I do think a lot of has to do that I have become more easy going, after my last divorce I took a year to myself, didn't even consider getting into a relationship. And arguing over stupid stuff like what you had an argument over was a specialty of mine lol

thanks for your good discussion friend,here is my response to your topic.if there is an give and take relationship,trust and understanding between the two people there will be a less arguement with each other but we cannot avoid this because sometimes we need to realize things to correct some of our wrong doings.Me too sometimes i argue with some of my friends,parents,officemates and others,if i've done wrong things to them that leads us to argue i approach he/she and tell him/her sorry for what i've done.In a relationship there must be trust,understanding,give and take,respect and love is the important for us to have a good relationship with others.