I believe my sister likes girls but she doesn't want to admit it.

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My older sister has a lot of friends. A lot of female friends in fact. I haven't seen her have a close guy friend. Ever since we were kids, her whole group would be girls. I didn't mind at all coz i also do have a group of female friends. But as we grew up, I tend to meet a lot of people and make friends with men. She on the other hand...1 or 2 acquaintances. She had one suitor though who was really patient enough, and his patience were rewarded, he became her husband. At that time i was very happy for her. 1 month after the wedding though, it was splits ville. At that time, my sister has a 'best friend' it was so unusual that i tend to dismiss the fact that it seems very odd. She picks her up from her house and vice versa which was out of the way from our house. The best friend sleeps almost everyday in our house, in her room. Locked. Whenever a guy talks to my sister and vice versa, they gave each other looks of jealousy, soon turn to an argument ( i know this because my sister's room is just beside mine and i could hear them, my bad! eavesdropper!ugh). I used to peek with emails, (My bad again!) when my sister was abroad and would see Baby I love you' I miss you very much! sigh! to her 'best friend' I would just deny it to myself that she isn't like that. When my sister was proposed to by her then husband. That 'best friend' really reacted the sort of when couples have a third party to deal with. My sister, i think was really pushing to have a normal boy-girl relationship. But i think it was never her inkling, she used her husband as a front for her issues. A lot of my friends has been asking me if she's g*y, i couldn't really answer them because my sister haven't really told me. I asked some of my g*y friends if they think my sister is one of them, they would say yes. It was all speculations and for me a denial. When i asked her up front, she just denied it. I really feel bad for her ex-husband now, because i have to respect my sister even thought she is lying to my face and making me feel dumb and innocent. And the thing is, it really doesn't matter at all. It's the honesty that really counts because she my sister. How can i confront her with this?