How to growth your love to your wife/husband?

I been married 3 years now and i think and i feel the same way before as you.I get bored and that is normal to a married life.I love my wife very much and we been together 6 years now 3 years bf/gf relationship and get married after 3 years.We do the same routine,we shop together, go to supermart,watching film together,slepping together, and more things that we do together. All i can tell you is try to have more time w/ him if he come back home and or asked him to go on vacation.And sometimes go out together w/out kids and try to have romantic day w/ him.Tell him what you feel about your married open all the feelings that you have.So, with that he can help also.

What makes thing ordinary is the failure of making something special, right? So if you feel that slowly, the flame of love is dying between you and your husband, then you can do something that will make it burn once more. As you have said, you've been seeing each other every Sunday, then why not prepare a dinner for both of you. As he arrive from work, approach him with a smile, a hug and kiss. That would make him think, but for sure he will like it. Prepare some movie tape, so that you can both watch it. Do some activities at home with the kids. You could ask your kids to help you in making a quick surprise for him. And in no time, i think he will be wanting to go home more and more... would think of something to surprise you too. Never forget to say I love you, every possible way you could. Maybe sneaking a love notes for him in his bag when he is about to return to work.

You have two little babies and that can really suck the energy out of you. Do you have a babysitter that you watch the kids so you and your husband can get some alone time. It is very important for Moms and Dads to connect as husband and wife.