Homeschooling anyone?
By SViswan
@SViswan (12051)
India
November 5, 2006 12:40am CST
I'd like to know if anyone considered homeschooling and felt it wasn't a good option. I've heard a lot about the pros but I'm wondering about the cons just to make sure if I can handle it or not. I have a 6 year old and am expecting my second one.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
14 Nov 07
I've got to be honest and say that I can't think of any CONS to homeschooling...I homeschooled both my kids for two yrs before moving to the U.S and it was the best decision I could have made! If it wasnt so strict here in NY to the point of invasive in a major way I'd homeschool them again (assuming they'd want that of course)...
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
14 Nov 07
Thank you so much for your response. The main problem I hear all the time is socialization...which I don't think would be a problem and another one is about being able to handle the curriculum. I can understand that problem with people who might not be educated or equipped to teach certain subjects at a higher level. But I don't think that would pose a problem for us. Right now, I have a younger one at home and don't think I will be able to give the kind of time and energy that the older one needs, to be homeschooled. So, I will consider again in a few months time.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
14 Nov 07
I thought as much about the socialization. My son started school after he was 3 yrs old (which is quite late accoding to other parents)...but he was the only one in class who adjusted well. And he's a freindly child who gets along with almost anyone.
As far as my son is concerned, what they are doing in school is baby stuff and he wants to know more about other things which interest him. We try to keep up with his curiosity after school hours...but that then doesn't give him enough time to do the fun stuff he wants to do. Anyways, I also felt there were so many aspects of a child's character that needs to be moulded at this stage and that can be done only by a responsible adult and who else better than his parents. I've seen how they handle situations in school and I must say, except for a few teachers, the rest of them are there just to while away time and take out their frustrations on helpless kids.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
14 Nov 07
The socialization nonsense is just that...nonsense...I got BLASTED from my family when I pulled my kids (keep in mind my mother and sister are both teachers so they were deadset against it)...but my kids actually socialized MORE when they were homeschooled compared to now...
As for being able to handle the teaching part..well there are so many different methods to homeschooling your options are endless really...I UNschooled my kids which worked out best for us..they didnt have a set time for schooling, they didnt learn the standard curric. and so on...then you have traditional structured schooling which is what my gf here in NY did and so on...
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Nov 07
The pros are that you can really control what your child will learn and how he/she will learn it.you could show movies dealing with the subject. You could make learning fun.And you could have quality time with your child.
The cons are that your child won't get to be with kids their own age,unless you have more than one child around the same age.And unless you can get your hands on the same type of tests they take at school,your child may have trouble taking tests.
When I was young,I would have loved to been home schooled, but my mom couldn't have taught me.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
27 Nov 07
Here in India, a group that homeschools let their kids meet on a regular basis for classes like tennis and karate. So, I don't think meeting other kids of the same age should be a problem.
My sons are 6.5 years apart...so I don't think that siblings are the answer alone.
Anyways with a little baby in the house, I don't plan to homeschool for a little while longer.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
14 Nov 07
I have never had any children..but my friend who has had several children homeschooled hers up to highschool and all her children are so much better for it.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
23 Nov 07
Firstly, We must thank Suspenseful ( the first person to respond) for bringing this topic live after it had remained dormant for more than a year, it had started..
As regards the homeschoooling.. i feel it is not a good choice in country like ours.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
23 Nov 07
Yes, I have to thank suspensful:)
If you mean a country like India, I'd like to tell you that homeschooling is a concept here in India and at various parts of the country. It's not as common as in the western countries. But there are various options and people are quite happy doing it. Curriculum like people think is not a problema and children can join the mainstream school when they wish after giving an exam.
Thanks for the response.
@thisnurserocks (28)
• United States
13 Nov 07
I have considered homeschooling several times but my son is VERY active and gets bored easily. I didn't feel that he would be happy staying at home all the time. Plus I feel that socialization is important for kids and they wouldn't get as much of that at home as they would at school. I have a friend who has homeschooled all of her children and has not had a problem with it but it does take a lot of time and dedication and her children participate in quite a few YMCA programs that get them out of the house and give them time to interact with other kids their age. PS( plus I have always kind of worried that I would start homeschooling and not be smart enough to teach my son the things he need to know or not be able to understand the curriculum provided in the homeschooling books. How embarrasing would that be!)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
14 Nov 07
Curriculum would not be a problem for us. My husband teaches at the college level and our son is interested in learning more than what is taught at school. So, we try to keep up with his curiosity but that eats on the time when he should be playing. He has friends at the apartment complex where we stay and there are always different programs that he can join for socialization.
When I first posted it, I hadn't heard about the concept in India. Since then I have researched about it and know that it is possible though not popular. But now with the little one taking all my time and energy, I don't think homeschooling would be a good idea for us. Maybe if I worked out a proper routine, yes...but I still feel a couple of months before I can decide on that.