'Blush' I've Got A Date For Next Friday Night - Feel like a Teenager

it has been almost a year since i was out on a date...just be happy and just let it flow...good luck with your date!!!

well mine was a quite interesting with lot of fun n enjoyment with lot of romance n seduces n u can too try it out by jus tryin to be romantic n doin all good things n getting into the good books of her so tat she doesn mind ur seduces.so come on man cu too can do it.

Hi Ellie...guess I'm a bit late now but how did your date go? you sounded pretty nervous but I would infact I don't know if I could go through with it lol it has been so long since I've been asked out its something I avoid it actually frightens me!! love and huggles littleowl

This is so exciting!I don't remember i went out for date.It was long time ago.I don't think age matter.Besides your age gap has not really a big difference.Goodluck and be happy!I knew i responded late.You had probably dated.How was it?

Way to go Ellie! You already know this guy so he obviously already likes you nad finds you attractive or he wouldn't have asked you out! So just be yourself, wear something that you feel comfortable in and that's appropriate for wherever you are going and just be yourself! He'll probably be a bit nervous too, but if the chemistry is there like you say both of you will soon relax and start enjoying yourselves! Age is just a number, and it obviously doesn't bother him as he has asked to take you out, so just enjoy it! You know about my last date, so we won't mention that! I have another one tomorrow night though, i always plan to start getting myself ready a bit earlier than i usually would and then i'm ready, chilled out and as relaxed as i can be by the time i meet them! I always try to wear something that makes me feel good about myself too, but nothing that looks like i've obviously made a huge effort - don't want to give them a big head! lol I hope it goes well for you, Ellie, it must be nervewracking to go back to the world of dating after a while, but you're obviously attractive and desirable, this guy clearly likes you, so enjoy it for what it is and who knows where it might lead, he could be your knight in shining armour or he could be the last person you'd want a relationship with, but there's only one way to find out and you can have a good night out whilst finding out!! Hope that made sense and wasn't too much of a ramble!! just enjoy yourself, part of the fun is the nerves beforehand!! xxx

i've never been on an official date as i've tended to date friends or friends of friends. i'd be excited though you seem comfortable with him as you've known hi for sometime but this is a new area thats only been skirted around with general safe flirting before. I don't think age makes any difference so i wouldn't worry about that many people act older or younger than their age so sometimes you just meet in the middle. I'm an accessories girl so i'd start with the shoes and bag and work from there. Firstly where are you going and what are you doing? this is key information for outfit choice!!! I'm usually just myself because lets be honest thats why they asked me out in the first place and like i said to you i'm very ood at reading people so can adopt to suit. I tend to be more comfortable with the shy quieter type than loud and brash but it also depends on the circumstances and situation. I'm excited for you though can feel those butterflies.

The last time I went on sort of a date was with my boyfriend/fiance. We were both very nervous and we didn't know we liked each other yet, young and naive and mostly... deadly nervous! LOL! I asked him to go to the mall with me to buy a gift for our friend and so we did, we ended up holding hands and on the birthday of this friend we ended up having our first kiss and the thing went from there. In september we are together 5 years and we are engaged so I guess things went pretty well!

I can see the sparkles in your eyes dear. Have great fun and wear something in black if its in the evening. It seems that you are going to have a great time since you two kinda know each other for sometime. Good luck!

Congrats to you! Just think about things that you should say when you hang out with friends, and be yourself. That's all. And when it comes to dress, you know better. And because you know this guy quite a long time ago, you surely know what's his taste. But always wear something you are comfortable wearing, and at the same time can awe him but don't overly dress! Lol... Good luck, and if I am too late maybe you can use it for the next date. Have a nice time dating!

hey hey just staty natural he knows u since 8 yrs so he migjht have commented on ur dressing or his liking so wear that stufff Just chill, take it as nice out time take care

Hi ellie333. How exciting! It's so fun to have a date! And with a new guy also! Cool! If you are going out for a drink for the first time, it might be wise to wear what you are most comfortable in: for example, a pair of slacks and a favorite blouse. After getting a divorce years ago and dating again, I had so much fun! I took hours to select jewelry, which necklace to wear, whether to wear a dress or slacks, which shoes to wear, better have my nails polished, make sure my hair looks great, etc. etc. It was a wonderful time! Well, my husband and I still have date night. We just went out this evening. We always talk about how much fun we have on our dates, too. But, you are in a different place. You get to take time to get to know a new person. To me, that's what a date is for. Be ready to share a little about you and have some questions in mind for him. Smile alot. Enjoy it, ellie333. It sounds so fun.

hrmmm.. last "date" type thing i had was a lil over 9 years ago when mal moved in and wed only known each other for 5 days online. same age difference.. i was 31 he was 20. and you already know how we turned out ..;points at the sprite;.. yer already up in the game.. youve known him for years and years.. he already knows you, which is why hes finally asked you out. be yerself.. thats who it is hes attracted to, not some illusion you create. have fun with it and good luck!

Yea for Ellie! Now since its been years since i've gone and done anything and i mean anything, I really can't give you pointers but please give me some when you find out..lol

Isn't it exciting to feel the renewed anticipation of an exciting date? *Girl I acn almost feel the blushing through the screen. (LOL). Enjoy those butterflies on your date...it'll make you blush and smile while you're out and it will be genuine. Have fun!!

Hi, I suggest that you just be yourself because based on your date's age he is matured enough. I think he likes you for what you are and he likes your usual appearance. If you want to dress to make a good impression, maybe you can wear one of your most attractive outfits available in your closet and put on make-up. However, make sure that you don't appear different from your ordinary appearance since this is going to be uncomfortable for you in the long run. Just take care of your personal hygiene since that is the most important. Make sure that your clothes are neatly pressed, your hair freshly washed and shampooed and tidied neatly. Wear your make-up just like what you have been wearing like usual, only highlight a little bit more while at the same time pay attention to look natural. Overdoing is not good at all and may look messy, clumsy and desperate. Wear your favorite perfume but never bathe in it because it will smell too strong. Other than that, clean your shoes, make sure your teeth are brushed and you smell fresh. Wear a calm and friendly attitude, and smile genuinely whenever appropriate. Listen attentively to what he's saying, and I believe everything else will go on smoothly. Good luck!

The last time I went out on a date was about 10 years ago and I did the asking!! I don't know what it is but I never get asked out...I've never been "courted". The closest I've come since then was to be invited to meet a guy at the pub with his mates...unknown to me, I was his ride home ...I don't drink and drive and he didn't have a car. I took him home and drove off and had no more contact with him. I always feel a bit nervous then I feel uncomfortable. Guys don't know how to treat a lady or how to behave like a gentleman or even make a girl feel special. I've had guys let me pay for everything - when I've been prepared to meet them half way, they leave me to pay the lot. One guy even pulled into a takeaway after I had paid for a motel room and the shopping for our evening meal. It was the next day and we had been sightseeing and he was taking me back to my car so we could go our separate ways. It was early afternoon and we'd had nothing since breakfast (no way was I paying for anything else) so I was relieved when he drove into the takeaway. He ordered something for himself and nothing for me. At the counter, I thought he meant to share, so I didn't order but no, we sat at the table and he didn't offer me anything...I was mortified...and hungry. So I can understand why you feel as you do but just try and be prepared for anything. I find things never go as I expect even when I deliberately leave my expectation level at almost zero. Oh well, at least he asked you out...I hope you enjoyed it and had fun.

Oh a younger man you go girl think we could all do with one ot them every now and then.. LOL just don't tell my partner that I said that ok anyway what a shame that you haven't been able to go out yet and that you have had to rearrange it twice already but don't give up hope yet it will happen just maybe not over night! Maybe you should take him as your date to your work do?

My last date was sometime ago and yes, I was nervous but everything come out ok. I hope you have lots of fun

Go ellie! Well my dear girl, you must be quite the hottie! He must really be attracted to you so I don't think you have anything to worry about. As you said you have known each other for some time now and there is obviously chemistry. So all you have to do is BE YOURSELF! He already likes YOU! It's normal to feel "nervous" and "excited". You'll be just fine! Don't think so much about it (yeah right, like that'll work) and just go! Just wear something casual, you'll know what to do! Calm down and breathe! I can't wait to hear about it! Now you go and have a blast! Oh yeah, it's next week. Ok, I'll wait.

How was your date? I see that two has passed. Hope you found the best clothes to wear.