Do you believe true love can't last more than 3 months?

@lixiaos77 (1030)
Shijiazhuang, China
August 15, 2008 11:38pm CST
One of my professor said that true love can't last more than 3 months in the class. The professor is a honest and respectable noble man. But I don't agree with him from my own experience. I always dream of true love and consider a lot about it. I believe common love can't last more than 3 months. If they can be married, true love will last more than 1 year. If they can't get married, true love can last more than 10 years. Do you believe true love can't last more than 3 months.
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@mandykaren (2040)
17 Aug 08
that is a bit of a strange thing for him to say.. you sure you got it right way around? because i would say it is not true love in first 3 months, real love takes time, it grows and develops until you get to stage you can not be without that person.. In first few months its just a trial thing, to see if you are compatible and if there is going to be anything there. yes we can say the words of love in the first few days, but its NOT true love words..
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@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
Well, maybe your teacher is referring to the love hormones which can actually last for about a year...after that, hormones will eventually fade out...Once it fades out, and the gist of love is still there...That's what we call true love...which means the real thing does exist....
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
no, I don't believe that. Me and my boyfriend are together for 2 yrs now and were going really strong. I know that his my true love...so...I don't believe your prof. hehe
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@ppooja03 (67)
• India
16 Aug 08
Well first of all all must know the true definition of true love . some time s you believe that your love is true love or some one other's love is true love but there is also possible that your or some one 's love need not to be true love . There is no one who can describe true love completely . And if you are in true love then it exists forever . true love means trust on each other . you cant judge it from few examples . All of us have a love story and all love stories are different . So ou have to be in the situation and and if you stop jusging true love and if there is a mentality in your mind " true love doest not exist for more then 3 months " Then you will lost your true love in three months . one thing you must keep in your mind " MAN ALWAYS WANT WHICH THEY REALLY WANT " ? am i clear ?
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@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
16 Aug 08
i have to say i disagree with that point of view.why true love cant last more than 3 months?as far as i am concerned,true love not only stands there in three months,but also exist there firmly in three years.it is why that's called true love,eternal love.where there is great love,there are always miracles,so i think three months is too short a period for the lovers to undergo,they can make wonders and set a new record longer than three months.someone compared the necessity of love as the air that we need to breathe.yes,i cant agree with him more.we are in great need of them,both air and love.if we cant live without air,then we also cant live without love.that's why now so many people live happily in the river of love,the reason is that their love hadn't gone bad,they are still in the fresh love period.love is not so easily to go stale as your professor said.so we have to believe there is always true love in this world can we find our happiness.love needs respect and trust. take care.
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
hi there.. if you say true love. then basically it would mean like forever. 3 months is so very very far enough compared to forever. so if you are really in love with a person, then nothing would really matter anymore.
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
you professor is a fool, maybe he hasnt been inlove yet...TRUE LOVE lasts forever... its not seconds, hours, days, weeks, months, years, its forever, its when you have an unconditional love on a person, eventhough he/she doesnt love you back.