is it ok to be overloving?

yeah, that thing is called possesiveness, its okey to love someone but i dnt agree in the thing you said that you love him/her more than your self. cause love is too cruel sometimes you thought that you already give everything to your partner but it ends up that he'll gonna leave you because he/she finds you stupid in his/her site...... keep loving girl

Hey there, I think it's your RIGHT to love anyone excessively. Love is a feeling after all and I don't think it can be controlled. However, when you are in a LOVE relationship and you want to be smart about it, you should not show too much love and attention to a point where your lover takes advantage over you or feels uncomfortable with you. I think the best is knowing the type of person your lover is and adjust accordingly. But don't think too much..