which would you choose someone you love or someone that loves you?
By lalaine829
@lalaine829 (113)
Philippines
August 16, 2008 7:10am CST
Two nights ago me and two of my friends were chatting and in the middle of our conversation, we had a discussion about who would we want to be with. Me and my friend chose someone that loves us while the other one choose someone that he love. It was a good discussion, something to ponder of what is the correct option? Well, I think there's no wrong answer here as long as we will choose the best answer that could make us happy. In my opinion, I would rather be with someone who loves me because I believe that love can be learned and nurtured. Furthermore, I also think that girls are quite flexible, a girl can easily fall in love to someone who is sincere and have a caring heart. :-)
4 responses
@praveenmar20 (16)
• India
16 Aug 08
Hi, i agree with you....
somtimes we think we dont need any one. But sometimes in life we dont have any one when we need someone. So retain your love by accepting with whome you loved by.
@easymoney75503 (1702)
• United States
16 Aug 08
well to be honest i wouldnt want it either way. i want to be loved but i want to love that person if i plan on being with them for along time or the rest of my life. it doesnt have to be one or the other. i love my husband and have since the beginning and same with him. i have been with someone that i loved and he loved me too but not the same kind of love i felt not the i want to be there forever and well it didnt work in the end i felt like i gave and gave and he didnt so i ended up be very unhappy. i was young then and learned a good lesson of the heart. then i was with someone that loved me and i loved him but not the way he did me. my heart was just not there it was looking for something else and well i ended up breaking his heart and hated myself for that. i just couldnt see myself staying with him no matter how great he was to me and how much he loved me it just want there. then i had one of those that we both loved each other but we were going different directions in life. we tried very hard to hang on to each other but in the end we had to say goodbye and well.... then i have my marriage we both love each other want to be with each other forever. been together 12 years. he loves me i love him and it is wonderful. that is the kind of love i want. that is the kind of love i wish for each person. that is the love i want my kids to have.
@carloLL2004 (376)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
its ok to hurt the heart of someone you love, but never hurt the heart of someone that loves you.
