Negative or Positive Outlook on life - which is the best?
By Meggettie
@Meggettie (51)
Australia
August 16, 2008 7:19am CST
My daughter and I have a long-running disagreement on whether it's better to be positive or negative in your outlook. I'm positive. I love life, I always look for the good before the bad, I trust people until they prove that they can't be trusted. My daughter calls me a sucker, but I have my borders and don't let people take advantage of me any more than I choose to. My daughter, as you may have guessed, has a negative outlook on life. She doesn't trust people very much and says it's better not to get involved. That way you're never disappointed. She worries about me. What do MyLot members think?
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3 responses
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
16 Aug 08
Hi there. Personally I also prefer the positive outlook on life. I try hard not to buy into another persons negativity, no matter who it is, for the simple reason, I dont like it and refuse to take on board. I think once you give it attention, its starts growing on you and naturally it will pull you down. Anyway to buy into negativity would be sooo draining. Stay positive and you have an awsome day too...
@Meggettie (51)
• Australia
18 Aug 08
I definitely agree. I have a friend who would have a negative comment if she won lotto. She's so unhappy, but how do you help someone like that?
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
16 Aug 08
that are two points i have,sometimes i have positive polnit as you,and sometimes i have negative polnit as your daughter, i want to have positive in my life,because i don't want think a lot for my life. it is tired for me to have many thought,so i just choose positive because i am a honest person.
@Meggettie (51)
• Australia
18 Aug 08
Well I must admit, I do have the occassional negative creep in sometimes. Especially if I'm tired or sick. I don't link anyone can be positive 100% of the time.
@tapnaroy12 (875)
• India
16 Aug 08
hi Meggettie
I think both of you are at least partially correct. When we analyse about attitude we have keep in mind about the gen-gap. Life is now much more complicated and today children are less social, more than necessary emotional (pl no controversy, it's my view, not a generalized one).Your postive attitude let you to take chance because you are sure to bear the consequences. But our children are not so much confident (for this parents are to be blamed). So they prefer to keep themselves away from taking a chance. You can say they like to adopt a neutral attitude.
But certainly no excessive +ve or -ve attitude are good. A rationally and +vely framed mind is the best.
@Meggettie (51)
• Australia
18 Aug 08
That's a very thoughtful comment tapnaroy12. I hadn't actually thought of the different worlds we grew up in. Mine was in the 50's and 60's and it was easier to trust then.