Detangling My daughters hair

United States
August 16, 2008 7:51pm CST
My children are mixed in that they are bi-racial. I love their hair when it's done, the texture is awesome. The main issue we have is their hair. Once we take it down and wash it, it's a nightmare trying to comb the knots out of it. Any suggestions on how you would handle it? Cutting it off is not an option.
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• United States
17 Aug 08
My daughters have really long hair (down to their waists) and tangles can often be a problem. But a friend of mine suggested we use silk drops, and wow what a difference! It lasts through a few washes and makes their hair so soft. Jeez I sound like an infomercial, but it really does work. You should try it.
• United States
17 Aug 08
Silk Drops? I have never heard of that. Where can I get it?
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• United States
17 Aug 08
Thanks
• United States
17 Aug 08
I get mine from walmart it's about $6 for a 4oz bottle, but you only need a few drops to do the job (about the size of a dime works perfect for my 3 yo with really curly hair) Here's a link to them at walgreens: http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100709&id=prod1790213
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@allurejan (197)
• United States
17 Aug 08
I think combing kids' hair is not that difficult. Maybe you should use shampoo with conditioner for kids' hair so that it is soft when you comb.
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• United States
17 Aug 08
It is very hard. Next time you go to the store buy a brillo pad and try to comb that. Do that and feel my pain.
• United States
17 Aug 08
Yea, we used to use baby oil, but the older they get the least effective it is.
• United States
17 Aug 08
Have you tried using baby oil on their hair after bath? we used to use that when we were kids back home.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Aug 08
Johnson & Johnson use to make a detangler spray for kids hair that I think is still made. My mo used it on my hair when I was little, worked wonders. There are also kids shampoos you can buy with a built in detangler.
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• United States
17 Aug 08
That's the detangler we use.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
17 Aug 08
My daughter is bi-racial. Her hair is very soft, but very curly. I have a major issue with one section of her hair. It turns into a little rats nest constantly. I leave her hair down, but in a headband most of the time. I recently bought some stuff from Sunsilk that is for de-frizzing your hair. It is in a green bottle. You just use a little nickel sized drop on the hair when it is still damp and it combs right out.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
17 Aug 08
It is the captivating curls stuff. They have shampoo, conditioner, and leave in conditioner. Go here to get a free sample and a $2 off coupon by mail. http://www.sunsilk.us/samples.php
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• United States
17 Aug 08
Thanks.
• United States
17 Aug 08
I will have to give that a shot.
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
17 Aug 08
I always had this sort of problem when I was young, and even now. When I use a conditioner, comb it through the hair and wash it out - my hair is usually unknotted. My recent one seems to work well it is an organic coconut shampoo by an Australian company called Diva. My hair is quite fine but there is a lot of it. Sometimes I know my hair has been so knotty that I have to try and run my fingers through my hair with the conditioner to get the knots half out before I can get the brush through it, but lately I think I can usually just brush it through. Maybe this will work with your daughters.
• United States
17 Aug 08
I will have to look into that. Coconut shampoo has been mentioned to me many times.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
17 Aug 08
Make sure that you wash hair with her either standing up as in the shower or leaning back as in a shampoo bowl so that hair can be in one direction. When your are washing DO NOT use circular motion when you are massaging the scalp, as this causes it to tangle. Then when conditioner is applied comb thru the hair. Towel dry the hair but not completely. Use a leave-in-conditioner/detangler and comb thru. I use Pantene Shampoo and Conditioner. I use a Motions Leave-in Conditioner or Elasta QP H-Two Leave-in conditioner. Both of these you can find at your standard beauty supply stores that carry African American hair care products. Hope this helps.
• United States
17 Aug 08
Thanks for the reply. We generally put a plastic kiddie chair in the shower. They sit down and we use a shower hose to wash it. They get a kick out of it.
• United States
17 Aug 08
I agree. Shower hose is convenient when bathing the kids and wash their hair better.
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@jomom75 (90)
• Canada
17 Aug 08
I'm not bi-racial, but I have always had long hair. When I was young it was down to my butt. My mom always bought the Johnson & Johnson No More Tears for my sister and I and it always worked great! I don't have girls myself, but I'm pretty sure I have seen No More Tears still being sold as well as other similar products. But definitely make sure you use conditioner, and not a shampoo/conditioner all in one, use a conditioner on it's own. If I even just wet my hair I will not get a comb or brush through it if I don't use conditioner. I have tried the all in one stuff and for long hair it just does not work for the tangles.
• United States
17 Aug 08
What we use is Johnson & Johnson No More Tangles for Kids. It works ok if you are patient.