are we prsenting a God who is "ungodly" if he willed that Jesus had to die-sins?

I hope don't offend anyone, I just don't understand why God need to take the punishment for human, I mean if sin is decided by God why do all the trouble to take the punishment for Himself while He just can just forgive us. Let say there is a king and one day a thief is caught, and if the king is so forgiveness shouldn't the king just forgive the thief and let him go, rather than the king himself take the jail for the thief. once again I'm sorry if I'm offended anyone..

God is holy, pure holiness. God did not create or decide sin. Anything that is not holy is sin. God created everything including the angels. And He gave the angels and humans freedom of choice of whether to be holy or to go off in their own direction. One of the three archangels, Lucifer, chose to do his own thing. He started having high thoughts of himself about how he was so wonderful and he should be worshipped instead of God. After God created man, Lucifer, who had been cast down to the earth and renamed satan, tempted Eve who went to her husband Adam and led him down the path toward sin. They only had just one commandment at that time...not to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil. God did not decide that this would happen, but He knew it would. And He had the answer prepared even before time...and that was that He, Himself, would take the punishment required once and for all. We cannot fathom God in any way. Humans always seem to want to figure out God. He is beyond being able to be figured out. Humans want to bring God down to our level so we can understand Him. He came down to our level in the flesh as Jesus Christ. We cannot understand what pure holiness is or how pungent the stench of sin must be to our holy God. We don't need to figure God out. All we need to do is trust Him and that He loves us enough to have taken our punishment so we could be holy like He is and spend eternity with Him rather than in hell. Hell was created for satan. Unfortunately, others will be there with satan because they don't want to trust God's love and accept that free gift He gave for our salvation. And no, you didn't offend me. I believe you are looking for answers and that is why I took this time to respond. Keep asking...keep seeking. God will reveal what you need to know. Trust Him and you can know Him.