Is life CRUEL???

Life is not cruel. Maybe at times, it becomes a bit unfair, but this does not mean that when something bad happens, we should blame fate for it. Life is a matter of choice and it depends on us on how we will try to cope with this. I know it is really difficult to see your mom like that, but of course you also have to consider the reasons of your dad. What you can really do now is to be with yuor mom especially in this time. You have to show your mom that n matter what happens, you are just beside of her. Try to be strong for her. About your dad, i feel sorry for this situation that you are in right now. Maybe you just have to realize now that you and your mom are the only ones who can help each other, if your dad is not caring for yu and your mom, then the more you have to show him that you can survive even if he's not there. You have to. Life is never easy, but this does not mean that it will be forever like that, Life will never give you the good things at one blow, sometimes things happen, so that we can learn from them. There is a reason why this is happening to you and your mom. Just be strong, and dont think that life is unfair. Dont forget that you hold a piece of your life in your hand, it is always up to you how you want the future to become. smile, hug your mom and tell her everything will be fine... in its time. It's not the end of the world, you just need a fresh start. It will never be wasy, but a least, if you take it one step at a time, you'll get there.

sounds like things arn't going to good for you... Life is full of its ups and downs and although this situation with your father may never change they way that it effects you personally will always change. It is sad to hear about your mother as a mother myself i can understand how this would upset her greatly and of course you guys as well. All you can really do is move on, your mother will always love you and deep inside your father probably does too and is to afraid or stubborn to let it out.

life isnt cruel , its your dad who doesnt understand things. Make him understand your mom more and more by working out something and not letting your mom cry like that!

life is not cruel at all my friend!! god has given us everything!! it is upto us to find the things and use them to the fullest!! it is always upto us to be happy too.. if u choose to be sad then there is no other go!! all i have to say is.. if u have a positive thinking towards your way of life then you will comeacross all positive things in your life!! be happy and give that happiness to others!!

Hi devanidhik I'm sorry for your mom and your family. I don't know whether life is cruel or generous. All I know is that life is a predefined script directed by, yet unknown to science, supreme power. And we face situations as per our deeds in our previous life. All the joys and sorrows actually affect the physical existence but not the soul which is the driving force of our vitality.