When is Enough, Enough
By Khunben
@Khunben (88)
Thailand
August 17, 2008 3:46am CST
When you really, truly LOVE some one, but you just can't seem to get things right, at what stage do you through the towel in, and say Enough is Enough, answer this, and I will respond with what I think as the right answer! consider all the facts first...
3 responses
@mobilecubie (820)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
I think that you will know enough is enough already when things don't and won't work anymore at all. Even if only one of you is having problems and the other doesn't want to cooperate and this keeps on happening then that is a good sign that enough is enough. Ultimately when you are sad in a relationship or if you are already doing all that you can yet nothing works, that is it, its should be considered over. Now in the case of someone always having fault and constantly says sorry two chances is enough and any more chances would only make you look like a fool. Love and being in a relationship means compromise and unconditional trust with a pinch of endless patience, not being taken in as a fool.
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@mobilecubie (820)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Well indeed the ideal answer would be never, I too wish that the answer to that is mostly never. But in the cases that one person is being taking advantage of I can't say that never is the answer. No matter how pure you and good you are there are just some people in this world who just take advantage of you to the point of hurting you. I have no problems if its going to happen to me alone, but if there is a chance that it may happen to the people important to me I definitely won't allow it.
@asiatic_r10 (265)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 08
At stage where we have talked heart by heart to each other and seems we still do not get things right. Deciding it by your own is a very subjective thing to do. You should talk together first to find a way out. However, if you cannot have heart by heart conversation then sooner the better.
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@asiatic_r10 (265)
• Indonesia
18 Aug 08
If you have already got married with her, then the right answer is NEVER and you together have to find a way to fix your relationship.
However, If you haven't, then you will ruin your own life having relationship with someone that never seems right. If she thinks the same way too (never seems right feeling) then you will be too selfish not letting her go.
