How to heal from break up?

Just share your story to your bestfriend or your parents. Just keeping it by yourselves will not solve the problem. But anyway, you have shared this story to us here in myLot. What I am saying is openly share the story with them, share the details, share your feeling; and I am sure they will comfort you. I don't know about you much and don't know about your spiritual relationship but for me, sharing my feeling to GOD through prayer comfort me the most.

It's ok! Cool down girl!I do understand you what you feel. I think your not the only one who was dumped after so long of relationship. Still it's not the end of the world. You still have a life to go on. It's how to heal it that's a problem! It takes time to move on. Life is so simple. Having pains and hurts makes you a better person it makes you stronger. It is better to feel love then not having feel love at all. Just forget everything make yourself prove that it's his lost not yours. You still deserve someone better then him. Life is a journey you make your life as long as you exist. Their is always a reason to it why behind it maybe even that relationship was years it was not really meant for you. In love you don't ask for a return. Go out and spread your wings and just fly! Count the blessings that you have. You can't have everything it this world just be contented with what you have now. Nothing stays permanent just yourself. Have a nice day! God loves you!

I think there is no quick written remedy for that. But try to think positive. may be that guy was not suitable for you at all. you deserve someone better. try to engage in activities that make you happy.

Hi goretz, [i]The pain is normal and it will help you become more stronger..It take time to heal but do not just stay in one corner and be sad all the time! Go out with friends, play your favorite sports, pamper yourself and also spend more time with family! In that way, you have no idle time that will make you feel more lonely, you can't control that from time to time, you will think about him but just remember, you will meet someone better than him![/i]

It happens. The only thing you can really do is give yourself time and space to grieve but also remember not to completely ocus on the breakup. Take a new class, go places, start working out. Make post-breakup resolutions and focus on accomplishing those goal. :D

It's pretty hard. I think its also about working out your own life, working out yourself. Like if you did everything right, and was a good partner, then I think there's no special thing you have to do, and just gotta move on. But sometimes I ask myself if i've been good all the time to my partner. And so i use it as a chance to reevaluate myself and make sure im a better person. It's hard I know, but yeah everyone makes mistakes. You can try your best, but we can still fail sometimes. Life i a bit like that. I guess you will feel happier hanging out with friends, and maybe meeting new people, but yeah it always hurts breaking up with someone you loved.

enjoy life with friends. go on with your life. busy yourself with anything that will help yourself improve. cause if you live with your life with your past nothing will happen to you. there are a lot of guy all around you. you might find the right one.