Who's Your Hero?

United States
August 19, 2008 2:17am CST
I have always admired Marilyn Monroe. Her life was ill fated from the beginning, being the daughter of a mentally ill mother. She never knew who her father was, as he was not listed on her birth certificate. She was placed in an orphanage for several of her younger years and then was moved from family member to family member, some of them abusive. There has always been something about her that intrigued me. Perhaps it was just that her life wasn't so "movie star" perfect and I felt I could identify with her in some way or another. Do you have a hero or heroine? A famous celebrity, an author, a fictional character or someone who stands out as someone you admire? Who is it and why?
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Aug 08
I am not sure that I have a single hero Kat. I admire so many people but few of them are well known. I admire you for your tenacity and fortitude. Your determination to carry on when things look bleak. The love that you give to you family and the guidance and moral values that you have instilled in your children. I admire others too. People that are unwell but give their love and care to others without thought for themselves. I especially admire my wife for putting up with me! LOL.
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• United States
19 Aug 08
Oh, you do have a way of making me blush when I least expect it. Shame on you. I'm just a person though, with troubles like anyone else and a child that looks to me to get him through the day. I do what anyone would do in my shoes, the next right thing.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 Aug 08
Shame on me? Nope. I speak the truth. LOL.
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@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
19 Aug 08
My heros are much closer to home. My heroines would be the strong women in my family like my greatgrandmother, both of my grandmothers and my mother. I like myself and I feel that I am who I am because of what they taught me and showed me about life, motherhood, womanhood. My hero, handsdown, would be my father. In my eyes, he set the moon and the stars. He was everything a father should be. As far as celebrities I admire, I am just so impressed with Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt with their dedication to each other, their family and their charities.
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
23 Aug 08
I would not call them heroes... But I do admire a lot of people for their achievements... their fight against the establishment... or their long survival in a fickle business... like the music industry. Princess Diana comes to mind... when she took on the whole Royal Family. The idol of my teens "Johnny Hallyday" who introduced rock n' roll in France in 1960... and still gives rock concerts in France 48 years later. He never stopped and has been 48 years at the top of his profession. I cannot think of many singers who did last that long. I have to admire Madonna for still going that strong after 25 years. The woman is amazing and keep re-inventing herself. And a couple of Australian racing drivers... Allan Moffat and D.ck Johnson... who went from nothing and raced as privateers with little manufacturer support... but managed to become racing legendes.
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• Australia
25 Aug 08
Madonna raves on as tour begins By Ian Youngs Entertainment reporter, BBC News, Cardiff Madonna has begun her new world tour in Cardiff, proving to fans that she can still cut it on stage at the age of 50. In a typically energetic performance, the pop superstar played two hours of hits from her 25-year career. It featured radically reworked versions of some of her old favourites, such as a techno remix of Like A Prayer and a rock take on Borderline. "She gets better with age," said Lewis Aldous, 23, from Brentwood, Essex. He said Madonna looked "incredible", adding: "She looks like she's in her 30s. This is the most fast-paced tour of recent times, especially Like A Prayer." Maria Paradisis, 32, who travelled from Sydney, Australia, for the show, said Madonna's dancing was "mesmerising". Please turn on JavaScript. Media requires JavaScript to play. Excerpts of Madonna's performance and fans' reaction "She can still shake it like she's a 20-year-old," she said. 'Disappointed' But some fans at the Millennium Stadium were not so happy with her latest reinvention. "She didn't do any of the traditional stuff that everyone loves her for," said Susan Harvey from Cardiff. "For £85 a ticket, I was really disappointed." Danielle Wheeler, 26, said she was "not as good as Kylie", while Stephanie Olokopa, 20, from London, gave the show six out of 10. "She was late and she didn't even thank the people," she said. The show was first of 51 dates for the pop superstar, who celebrated her birthday a week ago. It involved 250 crew, 16 dancers, eight costume changes and £1m of jewellery. The concert was split into four sections - Pimp, Old School, Gypsy and Rave. Madonna appeared on a jewel-encrusted black leather throne with the letter M written on its back. Opening with Candy Store, the first track of her latest album Hard Candy, the Pimp section was characterised by revealing and risque black outfits for Madonna and her troupe. When a classic white convertible rolled on, it took Madonna and her dancers out into the crowd, with Madonna donning the driver's white top hat before pushing the car back. Old School The intricately planned visual spectacle was as potent as the music, and Madonna is the master at using colour, costume and choreography to full effect. She was raised on podium for Vogue with four female dancers wearing long black gloves and boots and very little else. After that, it was into the Old School segment - intended to evoke her 1980s New York roots - with Madonna appearing in red shorts, pop socks and a skipping rope, surrounded by the kids from Fame. Into the Groove was the first of her '80s hits to be updated, backed by heavy bass and trance piano. She then picked up a guitar for Borderline, backed by a more conventional rock band set-up. The star donned heart-shaped sunglasses for She's Not Me, from her latest album, with her old videos flashing up behind her. When four dancers appeared as Madonna at various stages of her career, the singer went on to abuse them before indulging in some very frenetic, angry dancing. Gypsy theme With her long, wavy blonde hair, fit physique and endless stamina, she doesn't look too dissimilar to the Madonna of a couple of decades ago. She certainly doesn't look ready for a Saga subscription. The Gypsy segment began with Madonna in a black cloak writhing on top of a black piano, before her dancers donned hooded robes for Spanish Lesson. They then ripped off the cloaks to reveal shiny, gaudy shirts and indulge in some flamenco-style dancing. Not everything quite made sense - but it looked quite good, and that, you suspect, is what matters to Madonna. With her dazzling friends, she went on to play a Europop version of La Isla Bonita, complete with big, bearded violinist in a sequined shirt. The final section was Rave, which started with a pair of sparkly American football shoulder pads for her recent hit 4 Minutes. It then turned into a full-on rave as the queen of pop played thumping techno versions of Like A Prayer and Ray Of Light. During Like A Prayer, screens behind her flashed the names of sacred figures from various religions and quotes from holy texts. Heavy beats Most of the crowd seemed to lap up the pumped-up dance remixes. But as she strummed guitar in a skin-tight silver top, surrounded by futuristic creatures during Ray of Light, lasers firing over her head, it was tempting to think that maybe she should calm down just a bit. The entire night had the feel of a giant nightclub - and that is something that some purists didn't like. But heavy beats made the more mediocre new songs more passable, and the momentum was maintained by non-stop music even when she was off stage. With wailing thrash metal guitars at end of Hung Up, Madonna posed, hand on hip, seemingly satisfied with her night's work. Now she's hit 50, she seems even more determined to prove that she doesn't stand still, and she certainly doesn't slow down.
• United States
25 Aug 08
I think you've chosen some interesting heros. I agree with you regarding Princess Diana and her taking on the royal family. Johnny Hallyday, yes, Madonna, yes, but I am not familiar with the race car drivers of whom you speak. Nice to hear from you Aussie as always.
@youless (112582)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Aug 08
I admire George Washington. I am impressed about his story of cutting the cherry tree. He is honest. And I like honest people. Besides, he is so selfishless. No wonder he was a great President. I love China
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• United States
25 Aug 08
Being from China, I think its wonderful that you gave that answer. My aunt was just telling me that they asked several people who the first president was and the only American they asked, didn't know. Isn't that a shame?
• Canada
19 Aug 08
Hero? You sound like Loud. lol I also admired Marilyn, but for her womanly stature, unlike the skinny toothpicks they put forth as beautiful models nowadys. I think she was the epitomie of womanly voluptuous beauty. When I was a child, I admired Wonder Woman, but she is fictional. But for a REAL HERO, I would have to know the person personally, to make that judgement. For me, it would have to be sparks, since she has had to overcome so many obstacles and difficulties in her life and still always come out right side up. Pikey and Nova would have to be a close 2nd. They are both wonderful, kind, forgiving, accepting, loving people and I am proud to know them. I feel lucky to have them in my life.
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• China
19 Aug 08
My hero is Bill Gates! I hope one day I will be as rich as him though it is hard anyway/
• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Aug 08
Annie my dear friend - YOU are a hero to me. I have watched you grow into the wonderful person you are and if I had a small part in that growth, I'm glad, but the credit goes to you for making the choices you did and carrying them through - yes, much like your Gran and what a wonderful inspiration she is. Hugs.
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• Canada
19 Aug 08
I forgot one very important person. My Gramma. She turns 90 this December. I have always admired her, becuase my Grampa didn't come home from the war. She raised all 3 children on her own, working at Eatons, paying off a mortgage, never done anything illegal or immoral either. She also had a boyfriend, that was a boarder for awhile, but when she kicked him out, her daughter became my aunt. She raised her, too, as he didn't have a ready place to bring her with him when he moved out, and she and my Mom wanted her to stay, so she did. To raise all 3 of her own children, and then take in another, too and raise 4 all alone, that is a feat! I feel that I have always identified with her mostly in the family. She is a doer. Gets things done. I am like that, too. Always on the go, me too. She was always busy and that was a good role model, too. Whenever I had an argument with my Mom, I would walk to Gramma's house in the next town. It was a 4 hr walk, but I didn't seem to mind. My Mom did when she would come home frantic not knowing where I was though. So Gramma would routinely call Mom and let her know that I had arrived again.
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Hi kb, I believe Marilyn did have a very difficult life. All the things you talked about would mess with anyones head. She really had some seemingly unreachable dreams. How sad that so many people took advantage of her and her dreams. I can't say that I have anyone famous or not so famous that I've wanted to emulate, except for maybe my Mother. But not every thing my Mother did was to be admired. She was not as much like Mother Theresa as her friends liked to describe her. She did a lot for people and her church, way beyond what most are able or willing to do, but in doing so some things had to suffer. What I admired most was her strength, her desire to do everything humanly possible to help others in every way possible. She was a very caring woman. She had a family of nine children and took in one of her best friends girls to raise when her friend passed away. She never seemed to run out of energy when it came to her church and family, in that order. But she earned her place in Heaven. She wasn't so much a nuturer as she was a giver. She left the nurturing to us older kids. But I learned so much from her that I might not have learned in a life time from anyone else. leenie
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• United States
25 Aug 08
I think its a wonderful that people admire their mothers the way that they do. I wish I could say the same about mine, but unfortunately I can't.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
19 Aug 08
This probably sounds cheesy my friend but my hero was and always is and will be Leonardo Di Caprio! I just love watching him in films and I am transfixed by him. He has a clean image, very talented, can put his hand to any role, from Gilbert Grape to Jack Dawson. He is very very attractive, and is very versatile. He has given the film industry so much and will always be popular. He is a true hero to me and he can take me to the Beach any time!
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
My Heroes are my parents nobody else they have given life to us 9 children. They raised us very well and have been very good to us. They never complained nor argued about them raising us as a big family. They kept us together even amongst trials in life. I love both of them and am very proud to have them as my parents for without them I wouldn't be here. I have my own family now with 5 kids but I can't ever outdo what they have done..They are good people and very loving and caring and I will always try to be like them for my own family.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
Kathryn Hepburn, most definitely. An amazing individual. She was very controversial and way ahead of her time. The last film I saw her in was "Love Affair," with Warren Beatty and Annette Benning. I thought she was so beautiful and so talented. I can't help but think that her acting was a reflection of how she really was. Strong, outspoken, courageous, very self-confident. I wish I could have met her. I have other heros, too, certain friends I've had in the past. My own sister. My children.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
19 Aug 08
My hero. How much time do you have, kbourgerie? There are many people whom I admire, past and present, but the one that affected my life personally is my true hero. That would be my great-aunt, Susie Odell. She took responsibility for me when I was just 4-years-old, and gave me a truly good upbringing. She loved me in spite of my faults. She treated me like her own child. She was a strong woman who worked hard all of her life and didn't suffer fools. If there is any good in me it was instilled by her Christian morals. She passed away back in 1967 but hardly a day goes by that I don't think of her and remember one of the valuable lessons about life that she taught me.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Aug 08
Well I'm really upset now! This will be the FIFTH time I've tried to answer this and my server just won't stay connected and I keep losing my response. I even copied it to paste, but noooooooooo, can't even do that! Anyway, my heros are everyday people. Ordinary people doing extraordinary things no matter how mundane they may seem to others. We all have our fears and weaknesses. To be able to overcome them without becoming too disillusioned with life and to go on and triumph is the stuff heros are made of. Conventional heros are the purvue of fiction. Real heros are those that rise to the occasion of the needs of others, no matter how much they may be in need themselves. To keep an open mind and heart against all odds, and the courage to try, even if you don't succeed, is the hero in all of us. My children taught me that and I am forever in their debt.
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• United States
20 Aug 08
Well, I love that OPRAH literally came from nothing and established herself as one of the largest figures in the nation and admire her charisma and work ethic, I also look up to Martha Stewart because she is very creative and the perfect housewife at least when it comes to household chores, preparations, hosting, stuff like that. I am intrigued by Vincient Van Gogh and Leonardo Da Vinci and they have such unique storys to tell and I think they are closest to my heart, I like how Da Vinci strived for total experience.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Well I would have to say that my hero has to be the people around me who makes me live life everyday not worrying about the pain with it. People who smile an are happy just because you are there.
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• Philippines
20 Aug 08
my FATHER has always been my hero..he finished 3rd grade only but it never stopped him from striving to give us a better life..he may have failed in some ways but the circumstances only made us respect and love him more...if ever i would be given the chance to be born again and choose a man for a father, i would still pick him..and love him even more with his imperfections...on the other hand, marilyn monroe's life is indeed intriguing..i read an article about her at readers digest..i thought it could somehow untangle the mystery but it even got more mysterious...she projected an image of sophistication and glamour, but that of a heroine??? nah...
@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Ok, my hero is my Mother. She has had such a hard time growing up caring for her mother who was burned really, really bad in a fire. She had to take care of all of her brother's and sister, father, and her mother who couldn't do anything for herself. My mother had to quit school in the sixth grade, but can read better than most of the kids that graduate from schools now. She helped my sister get through nursine school when she was really ill also. My mother has given her all to everyone and holds no hard feelings for everything that she has been through. She is also the greatest Grandmother and Great Grandmother anyone would want in thier lives. My mom is now 86, soon to be 87 years old. She still lives by herself and has a pet bird that she cares for everyday. She cooks her own meals and for the main part is very healthy for her age. When I grow up, I want her wisdom and her compassion for people.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
20 Aug 08
For me it is my mom. She is a survivor. My mother has shown me how to be. Life has been less than kind where she is concerned. Rough and hurtful, and sometimes lonely. Most of which she has met up with gracefully. She has been my good example.
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
for me.. my hero is my father and mother that gave me life in this world.. although that i've been a son that was so stupid or being a son that is bad (nat all the time =p), but, they are my heroes.. there are times that we have preblems in life that we think we cannot solve, but, try to approach our parents and see whats the best advice that they can utter to you/us...
@prettyD (123)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Yes, I have my hero and that is God. We all know that God did and will do everything to us. I always look up him. I even wanted to be his good follower but sometimes we fail, you know we are only human being that is also liable to be fall, but in moments like that I always reach out to him. A hero that is a person, so far i have none..But that Marilyn Monroe's life, I adore because her life has full of challenges and yet she had overcome everything.
@allurejan (197)
• United States
20 Aug 08
We have the same idol. I like Marilyn Monroe too, though I haven't seen much of her movies or hear much about her celebrity life. I always wanted to know more about her. Yes, there's something about her that is intriguing but I it is hard for me to figure it out.
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
My hero is Bro. Eli soriano, he is the bible man of the philippines. He tackles gospels unique than any religious leader out there