Such a bad break-up, will i ever get a 2nd chance?

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So i was going out with a girl for just about three years. She was a lot younger than i was and we experienced great hardships from the beginning. It was like a Romeo and Juliet kinda story, except no poison, no death just heartache. We started going out sophomore year of high school. She was rich i didn't have a pot to piss in. Money was never an issue because we both "loved" eachother so much (aka. I did she didn't.) Anyway, i was not allowed to see her more than one day a week at first for only a certain amount of hours and so on with the bull sh*t. I took a bus everyday to her school, than another to take her home so we could spend time together and than another completely the opposite way back to my house. It eventually got better and we saw eachother 2-3 times a week. The first year i was madly in love with this special girl, the second year i became fed up with the rules and all this parental bull sh*t and why couldn't they just us be. It had gotten to a point where she would cry to see me and i would cry cause i couldn't see her. I could go on forever about how much she meant to me, I mean you don't stay with someone so long and don't even see them for nothing. I began going out with my guy friends to pass the time, met a few girls (which i did nothing with btw) and rumors of cheating were spread, many of my friends expected me to be a player since they never saw my girl friend and i just began getting sucked in to it. My third year in the relationship we were not seeing eye to eye and about 2 weeks before i left on a 5 week vacation we started making things work. Everything was going great until i had an unfortunate motorcycle accident. I was in bed for 4 out of 5 weeks and the only person i wanted to see and talk to was of course her. This is when it all fell apart. I called about 2-3 times a day, very depressed and in a lot of pain, and just needed to hear her voice for comfort. I just wanted to be home with the girl i loved, whom i thought loved me and was going to be there for me and never leave my side. She was the perfect girl, gorgeous, short, dark hair, very nice bottom btw, money meant nothing to me but she had a lot of it, quiet and intelligent and just the perfect 10. Back to the story... It was 2 weeks before my return home, 1 week from my 3 year anniversary and she was on her own vacation. I recieved an e-mail from some guy i had never met before, stating that his girlfriend along with mine, were cheating on us while they were both on their "family vacations." After comfronting her on the phone, she immediately told me it was over, don't call, forget i knew her etc. I got back, got my keys and since than have not even spoke to her. She changed her cell phone # and replied to one e-mail stating she had a new boy friend and that she did not want to jeopardize her relationship with him by communicating with me. What the f*ck happened? Is there ever going to be a chance of her coming to her senses? Am i crazy for not beng able to get over her for almost a year now? Why did it happen so abruptly? Lastly, does anyone think that we will ever be together again?