What do you mean dogs are more loyal than cats???
By candymarie
@candymarie (1368)
Canada
August 19, 2008 5:12pm CST
A co-worker of mine the other day mentioned that cats aren't loyal in the slightest. Now, being an avid cat person and having 2 cats of my own, I had to interject!
I said, well what do you mean? How do you prove this?
His response, well does a cat greet you at the door?
Why yes, of course, both of my little men do, both give me kisses, purrs and, "Meow! Where you going?" meows whenever I get up to move around the house.
He didn't believe me....so what happens when I go home after work? I whip my cell phone out, turn the video camera on, unlock the door and walk in, and there are my cats, walking to the door, while cutely stretching from their naps, waiting for me to get home, hahahahaha
Well of course I showed that to my co-worker the next day, and he said, yeah, well, whatever lol.
Comments anybody? Am I just lucky for having these cats?
The luck of the draw?
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15 responses
@Robin55 (225)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Our cats are also very loving and demonstrative with their affection. I think that because cats display their affection in a different way than dogs, people get the idea that cats are cold and don't care. This couldn't be further from the truth. For example, my cat Bubba, a Russian Blue has learned to sit, shake hands and give kisses. He doesn't do this quite like a dog would do it, but he does it in his own way and he does it freely, many times when no one is even asking him to do these things. We're always greeted at the door by at least one of our five cats and usually the dog, too. As with people, each animal is different and therefore behaves differently. Some dogs are more loyal than others and some cats are more loyal than others. Just like humans.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
Yes! thank you, that is totally correct.
Also, what a VERY handsome cat in your picture, I'm assuming the Russian Blue?
Also, VERY cute tricks...or personally quirks hehe.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
LOL Yeah, my cat has it for dairy. Anythign else, he won't quite touch unless there's sauce on it, he'll lick it off, then leave lol
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
haha, that reminds me of that cat food commercial, where it has humans acting out as the cats (ending pretty much saying that Only cats can be cats) and the "mommy" comes home to frankie the human/cat, frankie notices that mommy doesn't have the food, he kind of walks away, and says, no food, no frankie.
haha
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
haha, aw, just got a mental image of a kitty in a business suit, and tiny glasses behind an office desk. hehehehehehehehe
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
20 Aug 08
When I was growing up, we only had dogs. Most of what I learned about cats was from reading. My friends and relatives all had dogs too.
When my son was little, we had both dogs and cats. The cats only needed us for food. They paid very little attention to us otherwise. The dogs...were regular dogs. They were excited when we came home, cuddled up in bed, all of the things you expect from dogs.
My hubby and I (and my son - now 24) live with 2 dogs and 2 cats now. They are quite different. The cats communicate. They do join in the fun of greeting hubby when he comes home from work. But when we're sitting in the living room watching TV together, it's the dogs who join us. And when we go to bed, it's the dogs who join us there. (The cats spend half of the night chasing each other around and making lots of noise.)
People say that dogs remember you for a lifetime, even if they get separated from you...and that does seem to be the case. "They" also say that cats will forget you after 2 weeks. I don't know about that, but I do know that we got one of our cats from my hubby's dad and girlfriend when they moved from a house to a senior condo. Now when they come to visit, the cat acts like she doesn't know them at all. (But it could certainly be that she ignores them because they gave her away.)
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
well, I SOMEWHAT have to dissagree with the forgetting you after you're gone for 2 weeks, I went back to my province (GO NOVA SCOTIA!! WOOT!) and when I came in the door, granted Loki took a few steps away, more so because I was making a ruckus with all the luggage I was carrying in, and then he looked again, and just looked like he was saying, "Hey...I know you!" then came over to me, as well as our older cat, and just OH! I'm feeling warm inside remembering that reuinion hehehe. and yeah, I'd say the cat is a bit miffed at them giving her away.
But the dog/cat remembering argument, I think it's more about the stronger scent receptor.
Hands down, dogs have a stronger sense of smell, so they will remember you more, cats need to come in contact we you I think before they can remember you.
@sunny69316 (638)
• China
20 Aug 08
Hi,
you are happy that you can have many cats,the cat is cute,I like it just you,it is very interesting when they run here and there!
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
um....thanks? I don't have a pic of my cat up, "I like it just you" - say what? and interesting when they run here and there.....as opposed to what?
@jazzjafunk (28)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
actually, i dont think so... coz cat is a beautiful creature..
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
What do you mean? don't think what? yeah cats are beautiful, but what do you mean?
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
20 Aug 08
In my opinion, dogs are more loyal!
However, it depends!
Dogs are more clever most of the time.
They are thus to know how to repay ur kindness and appreciate it.
Hmmm, according to the cats and dogs that I know, I bet dogs are more loyal!
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
"Dogs are more clever"....not the dog I know...sorry roxy hehe.
and cats are appreciative too, they also just show it differently, like people, with different cultures in a way.
Cat's way? I killed a mouse and I'm dropping it at your feet, what I mean to say is...Thanks!
@snowy22315 (182196)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Although I think my dog is more sensitive to my moods than my cat, I would have to say that I think my cat is more loyal in some ways. He loves to sit beside me at night and watch TV with me while the dog is off somewhere. He also comes to me when I call him where the dog doesnt always do that.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
yeah, cats are the chillaxin flavour of household pets I think.
My cat also comes when I whistle...which was very convinient since he was an outdoor/indoor cat...dang it he was an awesome cat! (passed away a few years ago of old age and diabetes)
@shypoet80 (112)
• United States
20 Aug 08
My baby, Peaches, Is very clingy and affectionate. She Plays fetch, she meets me at the door, she follows me around the house most the time. She also whine if I am online too long, lol. She even is protective, my sister was over one day and playfully slapped me, and Peaches started to hiss at her. So I say Cats can be as loyal if not more then Dogs. I feel it veries from animal to animal, personally, not species wise.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
aw, yeah my friend had a kiten that played fetch too, my cat KIND of does that too, except when he gets closer to me with what he "fetched" he realizes, why am I giving it back to you? then he runs off with it. I think it's some russian breed that does that, can't recall where I read that. And wow, that is protective, and cute!
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
20 Aug 08
Hello candymarie,
My cats are the same, I have two cats as well Baby and Tom, when ever I come home they are sitting waiting at the door just like yours and when go the bathtoom Tom will follow me first and Baby will come in, they follow all round the house, the only they not doing that is when they are outside. I talk to them all the time and they do understands even my husband talk to them, they are very loyal, your co-worker should get himself a cat.
Tamara
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
haha aw, so cute, the older cat does that, the bathroom thing. But I've tended to close the door on him, since he tends to hop up on my lap...the fur just feels....weird lol.
And I suggested that, but he's never home, plus he's slightly allergic.
@deem1977 (242)
• United States
20 Aug 08
All of my cats have been very loving, even those that were not very demonstrative, I knew they loved me. I have several cats now and on any given day when I come home from work, several are waiting inside the door to welcome me home. I think that cats are more misunderstood than dogs and that a lot of what people see as loyalty on the part of dogs is actually dependence and how they have been bred. I saw a documentary on TV that said that dogs have been bred to see humans as their partners and to work with them. For example, if a dog is faced with a task he can't solve, he looks to the human to intervene and participate in the solution. This is why dogs so readily adapt to working at jobs. I also don't think that cats have been domesticated as pets as long as dogs. For example, while some dogs have been pets as opposed to working dogs for years, cats were generally kept around to be mice catchers. I think another difference is that because dogs are so needy, they demand a certain type of relationship with their humans. Cats, on the other hand, look to the human to define the kind of relationship that is desired. If the human wants a distant relationship, that is what will result. If the human desires a warm and affectionate relationship and demonstrates that to the cat, then the cat generally reciprocates.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
....dogs have been more domesticated than cats??? WHAT? Heloooooooo? Egypcian time - being worshipped as gods? I'll forgive you this time lol.
But YES! That is so true with the dogs looking to the humans! I've noticed my sisters dog do that, she dropped her cat in the hat toy under the patio, and just cry cry cry, my sister though the poor thing hurt herself!
The dog couldn't figure out how to get the toy back, so she goes to her mommy, brings her to the spot, looks down, looks at mommy, mommy helps.
Cats? "I'm doing this....almost.....allllllllmost.....just reach...a little further.....wha? Oh hey mom, oh...I was going to get that....thanks....uh, bye!"
lol or my cat Loki just gets bored with what he's trying to do and goes off and do something else lol.
The day he came home from being fixed, yep, the funnel of being pathetic *sigh* so cute, but I just felt so sorry for him. His haven is under my bed, where he hides his BEST toys (the damn squeeking one, which he likes to play with at night lol) now...COULD he fit under the bed? nope, the funnel wouldn't let him, so after a good solid 20 minutes of watching this, I just laughed, squeezed the funnel and helped him under, because I knew he wasn't giving up, he was still feeling woozy, and I know he was just going to sleep the whole day.
@philjas (1134)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I actually don't think dogs are loyal because they like EVERYBODY, and would probably be much more likely to run off with a stranger than a cat would! I think that's where these people who think cats aren't loyal are getting this from - they probably own a dog, and receive happy greetings from everybody else's dog, whereas cats they encounter run and hide or whatever. But if you've ever had a cat especially for a long time, you realize it is loyal TO YOU. My cats follow me around, and they tend to be wherever I am in the house, and when I'm out, yes, they are usually in the living room (where the door is) when I get home. My husband always says that when he comes home he can immediately determine where I am in the house because wherever the cats are I have to be nearby.
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
Well....My kitty Loki is overly social...to the point where I am scared to let him VENTURE outside...he might meet someone, "Oh, hello, what? SURE! I'll go home with you." I HOPE that wouldn't happen, I do see him somewhat cautious when new people come to visit at the house.
My sister's dog....would totally leave them for bacon...LMAO
@botoy123 (40)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I had a very charming cat before.. her name was Kitchie.. she's so sweet.. she always sleeps on my side, and on my arm.. but i was sad.. coz 1 night my brother came home late at night. it was dark that when he opened up the door he didnt notice kitchie came out. it was morning that we found out she was already gone.. T_T...
but i prefer dogs, we have 4, a spitch, pug, poodle and a dutchan, these beings are the one's that make me cry when they are lost, really, i really care about dogs, more than cats, coz dogs are always there on your side to maintain your security, and they will do everything to save your life in times of you know what i mean..
i can hear them whisper, i can feel what they feel, i can read what they are thinking.. ^^
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
....what the heck is a spitch? But yes I will agree with you there, when a dog gets lost, it's tragic, I mean, yeah when your cat goes missing, ALSO tragic, but I notice when dogs get lost, the owner is little more....frantic? Because of that dependant behavior they placed on the human so solidly. The mommy or daddy worries more because they highly believe that the behavior in the house means they can't take care of theirself, when really, oh yeah, they totally can on their own...they just don't want you to know it lol.
@bryanski (497)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Well, based on my personal experience, I guess dogs are really the more loyal ones. This does not mean cats are not loyal. They are too but the degree of loyalty just isn't the same. Dogs tend to listen more to you than cats. This is on my experience.
But I guess it all boils down to the man-pet relationship. It's on how well you've put up your relationship with your pet that matters, not really the pet species.
:)
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
Good answer, plus I think dogs are just the bigger wusses when you yell.
I mean sure, cats tend to jump when they hear a loud sound too, but when they realize you're "mad" at them, they get that little look on their face that says,"I'll fix this" they saunter on over, wind around your legs and purr.....little devils
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 08
i have heard this comments from most people, i assumed i was the only people who was feeling that my cat loves me ... (i don have them anymore)
few years back .. i was going through difficult phase in my relationship , with alot of sadness, tears .. talking to myself
Both my cats were they, they actually will lay awake listening to me .. when they see the tears .. they will come to my face a purr ... to me wiping away my tears with their fur ..he used to sleep on my shoulder everynight ...
they used to roam around and when they see me coming home .. they will both rush to the door and wait for me
i miss them .. i dont dare have another one as it hurts when they move on ..
@candymarie (1368)
• Canada
20 Aug 08
That is so true, but I will admit, I find all animals act very similar when they see their owner(or their pet haha) crying. My cat acting the same way, came up to me, not neccessarily puring, but almost being silent and solemn, then sat beside me, not on my lap, like allowing me to choose where I wanted him, and that he was just there.
Another example, my little cousin Taleah, had an owie on her hand (exaggerated little drama queen at such an early age lol) and their cat Flash (Fast as a flash he was, and also a sexy beast) just pounced on over to her and just SHOVED his face into hers and you could hear him purring from the other room I kid you not! (granted it was a tiny trailer haha) But it made her stop crying.