Courtship by the letter

@eiram25 (1076)
Philippines
August 19, 2008 9:20pm CST
To guyz: will you court the girl you like by means of SMS or chats? or do you still stick to the conventional way of courtship? To gurlz: Is it alright with you if someone courts you through these kinds of avenues? or do you also prefer the old-fashioned way?
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6 responses
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
well.. call me old-fashioned but i prefer courting the old fashioned way. i like courting up close and personal. i like to know "my" girl properly and see how she reacts on whatever i say. i'd only use sms to tell the girl i'm coming over.. c',)
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@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
heyhey.. thanx for the BR! c',) well.. actually, i no longer need to court any girl. not anymore.. but i sure can say there is one lucky girl.. because in less than two week's time, she'll become mrs.repzkoopz! c",)
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Wow! Then I guess congratulations are necessary then! Best wishes to the both of you!!
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Hi repzkoopz! I definitely agree with you there my friend! Nothing beats interaction when it's done in a personal approach. Because not only the things that are said are important, actions and body language also matters. I see that you're one fine guy who knows how to treat a girl with respect! Whoever she is that you're courting, I can say she's one lucky girl!=) Thanks for responding!
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
LOL. those guys are so funny. they are courting the cellphone, not the girl.. you can never tell if the person is sincere with his intention and if he truly loves you just by sending sweet messages over the phone. it would be much appreciated if they will do the tradition way. or why don't they start a friendship over the girl. that's the best way of getting to know each other.
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Thanks for your opinion. You're definitely right. Sincerity is lost if they court the girl through those means. Let's just say that following the traditional way only shows how much respect the guy has for the girl,right? Happy mylotting!
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• Philippines
21 Aug 08
definitely right.
@nic_knick (739)
• China
20 Aug 08
i think it is too outdated if a guy does in this way. i would tell my girlfriend that i love her and i will ask .would you please marry me, honey/
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
hi...wow... straight forward! :-D
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Hi nic_knick! I see that you're the type who's straightforward. Thanks for responding! Happy mylotting!
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
hi there... of the late, i often chat... though, sometimes, i am not sure how words or emoticons can sufficiently express the feeling or emotions of a person... however, of the late, people are more into texting and chatting... for me, more chatting since, it's cheaper hahahhaa... as long as my ISP is up...sigh.... how about you? modern or traditional methods?
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
you have a point. i wonder, how could i be sure of the feelings of the person i am having a likeing... hehehe... 'coz face to face conversation can never replace it with chatting... but oh, well... sigh...hehehehe
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I'd still prefer the traditional way of courtship. I may sound old-school but personally I want the guy to pursue the girl the hard way! lol! Just want to test if the guy's really sure and sincere about what he's doing. And I wouldn't want a guy who's only playing games around me. =)
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• India
20 Aug 08
call me old fashioned but i would prefer the old ways of courtship.I would like my man sending me an sms or an email for that matter..perhaps i would consider a phone call but still i would love to be courted the old fashioned way which has many values in it
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Hi walnutb0wnie! Old-fashioned way of courting definitely exudes the values a that a certain man should have. Thanks for responding!=)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I want the original courtship. I say guys are not the same anymore. The ones that do court via text, myspace, facebook, or other bull crap, they are not real men. The girls that do go for that are just complete easy idiots.
@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
yep,guys are really different now. It makes me wonder why some girls are ok with this kind of courtship. I mean, not to offend them but they end up appearing as easy to get ones. Thanks for responding! Happy mylotting!