What if someone you don't like says she loves you?
By zmj176800
@zmj176800 (66)
China
August 19, 2008 9:41pm CST
Love is a miracle. It is so fantastic. Everybody needs it and likes it. But what if some wrong love comes? Will you accept some love you long long for even if it is not what you wait for, just for you believe love can be cultivated little by little? What's your choice,please? Thank you.
7 responses
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
of course ill laugh. why? cause first i dont know him, second he might fooling around. why do i believe in a stranger.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I don't know what I'd do, lol. I would tell her that I'm sorry because the feeling isn't mutual. However, I would attempt to make it work even though it would be somewhat doomed from the beginning. I wouldn't call it 'wrong' love, just misinterpreted, lol. You would think one would be happy to have love in front of them.
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
well.. love is something that requires deep committment..
if someone tells me they love me, i'd simply tell them i really appreciate it. and i really do. it makes yo feel wanted and needed. but loving them back in an intimate manner is simply a different story. normally i'd just tell them i can love them as a friend coz i really do love my friends, some friends i even love more than just that. but intimately committing to a person is not as easy as saying it.
@shell1986 (405)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I think this would be an extremely difficult situation. I've never had anyone tell me they would tattoo my name on their arm or anything but I have have a guy tell me that he really liked me a lot. I told him on several occasions that I did not feel the same about him. However, he didn't listen and I finally had to be mean about it. I mean, is there anything else I could have done?
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I agree with you that Love is miracle and sometimes it is funny.. In that kind of situation, if someone love me but I don't like him, well I guess I will tell him that I can't accept his love especially if the love that his offering me more than a friend.. But if it is just a friend, definitely I'll accept.. Of course, I will be thankful because in all woman here in this world he chooses me to offer his love but sad to say I don't feel the same way as he feel..
I already experience this kind of situation.. There is someone who loves me so much but I don't like him.. He didn't really stop me even though how many times I told him that I don't like him.. Well, at first we became friends but as days goes by the more he is pushing his self to me and the more I hate him.. Until, I just end my friendship to him.. I don't have a choice but to hurt him so much.. I really don't mean it.. Then maybe because of what I did to him, I had a "karma"... Well, I fall in love with my bestfriend... But of course, I didn't push my self to my best friend to love me.. It's just really hurt because he don't feel the same I feel for him and he is already in love with someone else.. I need to accept it even it is hard.. Now, I am happy with boyfriend.. We are already together for more than 3years.. I know that I am happy to him and same he is..
I think my bestfriend is not meant for me and I am not meant to that guy because I am meant to someone else and that is my boyfriend..
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I would say a big NO, No, i will not accept it, nobody wants to be with in a person whom you dont even love, lOVE can wait, dont get rush, everything has its time.Ok, lets say you accept it, then you became her boyfriend then along the way of your relationship you meet someone whom you can say that she is really the one, what will you do? you'll just dump her, leave her? and court the other woman? you know it will just leave you a bad image.
Well, if you can its up to you.
@Lovecoffin (290)
• China
20 Aug 08
Well,haha,everything is funny until it happens to us~let me see...if someone i dont like says she loves me,i'm sure i wont accept her.I dont believe that love can be cultivated little by little.I'm a person still believe love is at the first sight~....lol....so i think i dont want to hurt her,just dont want to regret in the future,dont u think so?