Send friend's request--Get accepted-- Never turn to any discussion.!!!

Hi saivenkaat802003! haha..Lots of them in my friends' list. Want some? haha..You very well know that I post discussions very rarely but still they never bother to respond to any of it. That is why, sooner or later I am going to make some cleaning up again after I post another discussion of mine first. haha.. Take care always..God Bless!

When they like something on you, they became friends and come before you !!! Make a topic which they like to come before you !!! Friends are always there, if they really know to give solution they will. Right response at the right time is the words of right friends. Wait Wait Wait They are there

I am so rarely on mylot these days, I have been trying to get all my stories up on associated content so I can get some money coming in. After that is done and if I don't have a writing assignment because that always comes first I will be on mylot more often. Sorry hon, that I don't get a chance to respond so often, but I am so thankful that you still respond to my discussions when I put them up.

People are not always active. As you know I was away for while. I think that many people are on Mylot only once a while. I will respond to only few topics now. I have to chose only positive or funny discussions due to my emotional stage. I will chose discussions not per member but per topic. In general I check friends discussions first. I just let thing go. I know that sooner or later all of my friends will respond to at least one of my topics. If is only one per year, it is better that none. I am here for almost 2 years and I know that some people post only one respond per week. HUGS

I have a lot of people on my friends list who do this, they request friendship and then I never see them again! I have about two handfuls of people on the whole list who never fail to join in a discussion even if they do not really know what to say. I recently started to check the activity of people requesting because it seems such a waste to have so many people and then never talk to any of them!

Yes, I do have so may of then who is in my friends list and never replied on my discussion but maybe they have a reason on why because they were not online so often...... or maybe they cannot relate on my discussion as well so even if they will not replied but I still do replied on their discussion as well.........

I haven't been on here much lately been really busy this summer, and have got nothing done. But I know what you mean. That is why now when I get a new friends request, I go see if they have responded to any of my posts. If they haven't or didn't respond back to something I posted in their discussion, then I deny them. I don't accept everyone, like I once did. And One day I spent time deleting those people that do this off of my friends list. Speaking of which I need to go check out some of my friends discussions, don't want them to think I forgot about them. lol

it is absolutely true. I have also noticed this. i get many friend responses. i accept them all. but there are only few who ever respond to my discussion. now look, i remember to answer atleast few of the discussions of the newly added friends.

I do not just have a few friends, I have a whole lot so I answer the friend's discussions that are on the home page if I can. It depends on the topic. Some topics I am not that sure of, but it is not that I reject that friend, it is that I do not know the answer. I am also sure that the friend who never answered one of my discussions or several does not know what to say, or has difficulty relating to the subject. Besides I do not have a list of my friends's names on my computer and make a mark beside her or him when they answer. It really does not matter since I came here to respond and comment and start discussions, not to see who answers my posts.

Yeah same problem is with me. I have almost 650+ friends and the highest responses I got to one of my discussion is still below 70. I guess people here on MyLot stay inactive for a longer period of time and do not respond to discussions started by their friends.

Take it easy. You know the world is quite large and therefore there are various kind of people. I also do what you do. I accept to anybody's friend's request immediately. As to whether they respond to my new discussions or not, I don't care. I know you are a very nice person, why do you mind it? I am still here and I will still respond to your new discussions:) I love China

It's not what it meant to be. Maybe they are busy at the time. I don't know, however! Or maybe they missed ur topics. Look on the bright side! Take it easy!

Don't be angry please,maybe they are busy with something and have no time to come to mylot. I remember that when I joined mylot,I add some member as friends.But then I was busy with my study and had no time to come to mylot until 2 month later. Certainly there is no need to reply all the topic your friends start,just get your favourite .

Hi Sai Venkat, I have some friends who just sent me a friend request to give some referral link and they were never active after that. I have about 50 friends of which about 15 are inactive

I get friends requests and accept nearly all of them. It's hard to keep up with everybody all of the time, but I like to have people handy. The main reason I might invite somebody to be a friend--besides recognizing him/her from another site and wanting to connect here as well--is that I've either read something he/she has written and am impressed or can tell from his/her profile page that we have a lot in common. It's not about somebody owing me so many reads and vice-versa. What happens after we become friends happens. That is, there was a good reason for my inviting somebody at one time, and I hope that person will accept that, even if I only touch bases occasionally.

I confess I don't even pay attention. I respond to my friends' discussions unless the topic just doesn't interest me and I respond to other discussions that I am interested in. Also if somebody (not a friend) responds to my discussions, I usually also go and check out theirs.

There are friends like that, and i sometimes do that as well. The reasons are simple, either the interests do not match and when you are browsing through discussions you can not find theirs or can simply not reply to the discussion or that your friends become inactive and you forget them. I try my best to respond to discussions that i can give honest answers before i go to the 'friend started' section.

I didn't think that we were supposed to answer our friend's discussions. I generally don't choose what discussions I respond to. Sorry. Next time I will make it a point to respond to friends' discussions.

yea, thats so lame, i usually except most of my friends request and i dont understand why some of them dont come to my discussion i dont mind coming to respond to there discussion's but im still a little new and so far most of my friends at mylot do respond to my discussion's but i have noticed a few that haven't i think its fun to respond and chat with everyone.

cant you make money if you add friends and answere to discussions. i thinks thats why they do it!!!