the sweetest thing

@kayedanda (1850)
Philippines
August 20, 2008 8:59am CST
the reason i have posted only one discussion today and at this late an hour (it is 9pm in our country already) is that i woke up with the worst headache (plus my throat hurts like hell and i have a freaking dysmenorrhea. talk about a bad day. augh.) and i cannot muster enough strength to work (let alone get out of bed). we have a three-month old child, who requires a lot of attention and TLC and likes to be held as often as possible since yesterday (she wants extra warmth, since it is four degrees below normal due to the typhoon karen), there are chores to be done around the house and a thousand other odd things that need to be accomplished, but there i was, a worthless piece of carcass unable to do a thing. at times like this, i feel really useless and depressed, as i am unable to contribute anything to the house. i am the person who does not want to feel unwanted and worthless. it gives me an unpleasant feeling, plus the fact that i can see my husband struggling to work around the house while taking care of our daughter svetlana (that is one HARD feat, considering svet can become very demanding for attention at times). so when i got the chance, i whispered to my husband that i am so sorry for being such a useless wife today. you know what he told me? "you deserve a break. you've been working so hard. i do this not because i have to, but because i love you and our daughter". tears started to form (i cry easily), and at that moment, i feel i love paul even more. there was so much in life that we went through, and he stayed strong for us. and even though i nag him most of the time, he doesn't fail to make me feel loved every single day. can you share to me what was the sweetest thing you remember that your partner did for you? i'm in the mood for love stories to die for right now :)
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
I met my gf when I was working in Tawi2x and it was a long distance relationship. We became friends,and did like her so much,and courted her for a month and still even I was a far it's like were to close I am there always with her. I decided to be with her and meet her personally. It wasn't easy to look for a job here in Manila but all the way she was their at my side loving me for what I am. It took me 4 months to get a job cause I even got sick and accompany me to the doctor. She took care of me and tells me don't worry I'm here always for you it's no matter what... She never ask me in return...Still she gives me a smile a warmth smile a huge hug everythime I fall down. God won't give you problems that you can't carry, she usually tells me that until now. I know relationship is not perfect, but she tries to understand everything accept everything even I know I can't be like her how strong she is,she makes me strong everything how to face life. I get ashame already still she will hold my hand and tell me I m here with you. I don't know what to say and still she usually tells me a thousand times I love you noel. Now my life is getting better and thinking to propose to her marriage even though it will be simple wedding I wanted it to be for me I can't live with out her she's everything to me that I wanna spend my life forever and share my life with her. Have a nice day!
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@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
now THAT is one inspiring story! good luck to you on your proposal! i'm sure you two would make each other very happy when you get married :)
@liuqian (476)
• China
20 Aug 08
Hi,it is the sweetest thing i heard today!You really have a good husband.Wish you will get better soon.Now i have no boyfriend yet,but now i wish i will have one treat me so well in the future.And i can see your baby on your avator,so lovely,so cute!^^ Yes,now you should have a rest and let your husband help the housework at this moment.Wish you a happy family,take care.
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@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
thanks for the concern! and thank you for complimenting my child :)
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Aug 08
it is very nice. i am not into any realtionship or married. so i can't share with you anything. but i think when the person you love makes you feel special each day, its nice feelings.
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