anyone help me?

Malaysia
August 20, 2008 9:21am CST
let's see. if all of you know me better that anyone, can you tell me what kind of person i belong to? well some of my friends said that i'm nice and some say i'm bad. maybe i'm in the middle of it. but my guy said i'm nice. maybe it just a word or i dont know. however lately i found myself as a bad person but when i ask my friends and they said actually i'm a nice girl but why i think that i'm a bad person. maybe i don't know. should i change myself or be stranger to myself. but what i know changing who you are now will not changes the truth inside you.
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James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
OK! This may be dangerous ground for me but I will have a guess! Judging by your photo and the way you write etc I am coming to the conclusion that you generally are a good person, yes. But if someone does the wrong thing then this will instantly change! I feel that you are a romantic person, but your romantic dreams are geared more towards people that are out of your reach like famous people, celebrities etc..... I also feel that there is probably someone that IS within reach of you but for some reason you do not feel able to really tell him how you truly feel. I also feel that you enjoy new things like new fashion and technologies like phones and electronics etc and always want to be one of the people seen with something new! But you probably also change your mind and lose interest quickly as well! lol. So tell me? Did I come close??
James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
20 Aug 08
Sorry but I didn't state the last bit! All you can be is yourself and your true friends will accept whoever that person is. The only way you should feel that you are bad is if you ARE bad in how you act or treat others as well.
night_clover06
@night_clover06 (53)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
Hay James, i think that you are right. Now i realize that i am a good person deep inside my heart. well what you say some of them are correct and to be honest i am a sweet and nice girl but the only problem is everytime i go online on yahoo messengger or msn and people saw my pic they think i'm the same as other girl that you know the one that only interest in do naughty thing. please not every gril have the same interest when they online. like me i love to be online so i can know more people to be my friends and learn new language and places. but why people still think the same especially guys. James plese don't feel ofended.
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James72
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
21 Aug 08
I don't get offended easily so don't be concerned at all on that front! I don't know you at all so based on your question in your post I took a light hearted guess! I wish you all the best!
dheal888
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
What is change in yourself if you don't who you are? Every people have personality. So you do. Keep it and always knowing as long as you live. That's the name of LIFE. We're must trying to find who are we and then your personality.
night_clover06
@night_clover06 (53)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
that's what i been told myself but it seem some people doen't understand me.
dheal888
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 08
So, you have been try that, it's mean good for yourself. Why worried about another people? I think be yourself, knowing yourself and then start build your life for better tomorrow with self-confidence. Nobody perfect! Take care.
zhaosonghan
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
20 Aug 08
Don't change yourselves headlong,you are just you,you shall a right think for yourselves,everyone has different mind,it's impossble let all of people have a satisfation to you,so don't care others' opinion,just do yourselves.
night_clover06
@night_clover06 (53)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
thanks to you. i appreciate that. i just trying to be myself i mean who i really am. i will never change the truth about myself and i hope people will accept just the way i am.
yyyyyyy
@yyyyyyy (9)
•
20 Aug 08
No.Don't change yourself,you just you and you can't become anyone you what.Nobady can change you and you don't need to change yourself because no one is worth.
night_clover06
@night_clover06 (53)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
thank you and i will always listen to what my heart say and now i can have faith in myself and never let peole change the way i am.