Forgive and Forget? Read my story and comment and send suggestions

Malta
August 20, 2008 2:01pm CST
I've been in a relationship for more then 3yrs now.We have huge rows all the time and all of the time it finishes with him breaking up with me(for 5times).The last one was last April.My grandpa died on d 22nd April and on the 23rd he broke up with me(cause of silly things).It was the day before the burial. I was really devastated in loosing my gran so suddenly and also loosing my bf as well almost on the same day.On the day I found myself alone and had no one to lean on in the time that I really needed someone beside to comfort me.I'm still hurt about this breaking up in the worst week of my life. I really don't know if I should forgive and forget, but it hurts alot.We ended up back together in the end. Can you comment and suggest what would you have done in my situation?Did I do the right thing in getting back together with him?
2 responses
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
20 Aug 08
swtlady,Well first of all I want to say I am very sorry for the loss of your grandpa.And second I want to say you are very young and beautiful, you deserve someone that will be with you in the good and bad times.I know that you love this man, but are all the heartbreaks worth it?I can not say much because I am in a relationship much like yours, it is on again off again, we too break up at times, he is not there for me when I need comfort. We have been together 10 years, but I am 56 years old.You deserve a man that will always be by yourside.
• Malta
20 Aug 08
thx for your response.Well he changed a bit from that day on.He has improved.Well he's almost 26 and I'm 21.I don't think there are better men out there.They say no one is perfect maybe this is just his imperfection.Today after reading what I wrote asked me if I'm really still hurt and I told him I will never forget it.Apart from everything he always was there by my side. Hope everything turns out for the best for you.Good Luck xxx
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
9 Nov 08
How are things going after three months? If you are breaking up so often it means that there is something wrong in your relationship. Is your partner mature? How old is he? What are you arguing over? ARe you meant for each other? Only time will tell? If you are experiencing so much difficulty I would advise you to go to a professional help © ronaldinu 2008