Can you explaing jealousy to me?

@valeria1 (2721)
United States
August 20, 2008 4:59pm CST
This is something that hunts me my entire life, I do not envy anything from others because I know I can get anything I want depends of me and only me. But if I am in a relationship I get jealous over my man and that means love to me, and caring. If I am not caring or being jealous this person is just gone. Question to you guys can you explaing jealousy in a relationship? Please do not come with self steem and all that because is not it I do not like to be subestimated, simple as that!
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@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
hmm jealousy is a product of too much and too much + not good enough or too less + too good to be true...if mayi explain the first one.. too much + not good enough = someone is jealous bcoz the other feels too much love adn thinking that you are not good enough for your partner to be satisfied... too less + too good to be true - someone give less love and thinking that the person he/she is with is too good for her and he/she jealous to the opportunitt that the person might bump to someone better than he/she is... the fear of uncertainty creates the roots of jealousy adn if not properly guided can go miles...guard the level of your jealousy...as you notived the formula has too (excessive state) too much or too of anything is not good.. whew i cant go home without answering to any of your discussion everyday!
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Thank you Petik for the great explanation, I see the viewpoint and I keep looking through out the day for your discussions also, I love your brilliant ideas, please keep it up girl, Love, V!
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
hi valeria, jealousy is a feeling, in a relationship especially your loved one, you must feel jealous, only then you will know the dept of your love .. .. i admit i am jealous ... when my husband shows too much concern to his family .. i am jealous ... when my husband says I LOVE YOU to his adult nieces .. i am jealous .. whenever during our family gathering, my mother cooks food that is my brothers favourite and not mine if you love someone ... you must feel jealous, it shows that you want the third person only to look and do wonders only for you cheers hope that i did not subestimate you in anyways ..
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Of course you did not subestimated me I loved your answer makes sense to me, thank you!
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
29 Aug 08
[b]GRRR to DaddyOfTheRose (1285) response was accepted on 8/21/2008. denotes best response.[/b] thats jealousy! -rocky
@metalhalo (599)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Plain and simple I think jealousy occurs when you're insecure about the relationship you're in. If you had complete faith and confidence in that relationship then there'd never be any room for jealousy. I don't get jealous over my husband because I know who he comes home to each night. He loves me and makes it a point to tell me each and every day. Other than that..jealousy is just an emotion. You can either keep it in check or let it run you down.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
20 Aug 08
Thank you very much for your comment and I will make sure I will analise what you said to see if it makes sense to me, I appreciate!