wife

In my opinion, there is no such thing as a perfect wife, or ideal wife, just like there's no perfect or ideal person. To each his own. As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Every husband & wife is different, depending on the needs of the husband that the wife will provide, or the needs of the wife that the husband can provide. The husband and the wife will blend in time as they journey through life everyday, depending on their needs, their love, their ideals, etc.. To give you an idea of what I'm saying, I'm sharing you this: Take a lump of clay, Wet it, pat it. Make a statue of you And a statue of me. Then shatter them, clatter them, Add some water, And break them and mold them Into a statue of you And a statue of me. Then in mine, there are bits of you. And in you, there are bits of me. Nothing ever shall keep us apart. by Kuan Tao-Sheng

There is nothing like an ideal wife. Every body has their own share of emotions and they will flare up from time to time. I have been married for the last 23 years and I know that our marriage is strong. I try to be loving and understanding, but that does not mean I dont blow my top. When two people meet, there are bound to be differences. I think there should be physical contacat now and then, like a cuddle or holding hands. Learning to please your spouse is another plus point, so that he does not stray. The biggest is understanding, trying to put yourself in his shoes and see his view point. Mostly men are egoistic and will want their own way, so if you want peace, let go. Blowing up is also good for your health, for it relieves the frustration. Good luck.

I don't think there is anyone out there that should even try to be an idol wife. I believe that if you love your husband, you will do just about anything to make him happy. But on the other side,I also think that if your husband loves you with all of his heart, that he will do anything to make you happy. Marriage is a 50/50 union. A good wife takes up the slack when her husband is working all kinds of overtime and you are laid off for the moment,and it goes both ways. A good wife stands behind her husband, doesn't talk bad about him when she is with her friends, supports him in all the things he does, is his best friend, is always honest with him,and loves him more than life itself. Most of all a good wife makes a good husband. Men tend to give what they recieve, and a good man will do for you all the things you do for him. Marriage isn't easy. It takes a lot of work from both the husband and the wife. Marriage is a commitment,a commitment that's hard to keep some times. I think some people get married too young, too fast, and for the wrong reasons. Then when it gets a little tough,they want to "throw in the towel" right away instead of working on the problem. There needs to be marital classes, counseling, together and one on one talks with your pastor and more talking between the couple about what they want from each other and what they want out of life. I also think that a couple should be required to live together for one year before they even think about marriage because how are you really suppose to get to know each other good and bad habits and make sure you can live together for life if you can't live together for a year?

well, i am not the type of wife to be idolized since i am only married for a year, but i think one can be an ideal wife to her husband if she gives all her best in everything she can. love is a two way street as the saying goes and that is absolutely true that is why being a wife entails also a lot of responsibilities almost similar to that of the husband to make the relationship works and lasts long.