if you were i ,what should you do
By sunjar
@sunjar (10)
China
August 21, 2008 1:50am CST
i have admire a boy for 3 years though he did't know.But after graduation i learend he has had a gf.
ok,i wish them with my heart broken .
BUT i really give up.i wish them a happy future.i just send a message to him everyday,but he seldom reply,why?always waiting ...
should i continue to keep in touch with him tobe good friends orjust be common friends? or should i leave and no longer connect him?
it seems easy to do ,but infact ,it is so hard!
2 responses
@agent_alice (448)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
That three years is very long. You do have a lot of patience. Now, that you have mentioned that he has a girlfriend. I think it would be better if you stop communicating with him.
It's hard to stop communicating with him, but I hope you will learn to do it slowly. Try to forget him, and move on. You do not exactly look for love. Love comes at the right time and at the right place. All you have to do is have a happy life, enjoy life. Join clubs, attend meetings, join activities, and have a lot of fun. I'm sure you will meet a lot of boys better than him.
Life is so wonderful, if he is not meant to be yours. A right one will come along the way. Take Care.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
21 Aug 08
If he has a girl friend then its not good to continue what you are doing.
If I were you, I will just leave him alone. Let him enjoy his life with his girl friend. I will not trouble him anymore. And I don't believe that our Ex can become friend. So I will not contact him also. 
